"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How can I get this girl ?

aWolf

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She's 20 with a medical student biyfriend. He will pop the question soon this week. She said that shw will marry him because he's oerfect husband material, but she wants seckeual relationship with me. You can tell. He's an AFC to the core

I've screwd a little by making fun of him ( he uses injuctions to gain more muscles) he's jealous all the timedont want her to go out anywhere but she really wants to marry her.

I want this girl. Also i want to improve my game bywinning in this case.


I know you. Guys have bern there and won. Any advices ? Cuz she's already wants secks with me, how can I win her over ?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Leashed

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She's 20, she doesn't know who she wants to marry, just a fantasy pipe dream for her at this point, but again, she's 20, and the importance for her in a relationship is undoubtedly going to change.

Fvck her if it's easily doable. If you do a good enough job, she'll keep coming back for more, and build the emotional attachment to you that you desire. If he's an AFC, she's bored, and will grow further bored with him as time passes.

Just go for it, blow her mind in bed, and she'll want more.
 

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Wrong mindset. You're not looking to win her over, she's looking to win you over. Other than that she's taken, if she wants sex with you then you can play on it. If she brings up wanting to have sex with you then tell her you won't do it because she's taken, no further explanation needed.

Just the basic idea of trying to win someone over is doomed to fail, always play as an equal or more. If you feel below your feelings betray you.
 

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"Winning" at fvcking another mans woman is like running in the special Olympics... Even if you "win", you're still retarded. Have some pride and honor.
 

TheException

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Grewd said:
Wrong mindset. You're not looking to win her over, she's looking to win you over. Other than that she's taken, if she wants sex with you then you can play on it. If she brings up wanting to have sex with you then tell her you won't do it because she's taken, no further explanation needed.
Cosigned.

Quit wasting your time like a chump. The woman will be apparently engaged within the week....go meet hot single women.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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goldengoose

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Unless she is in your bed with you she is all talk. Women can string dudes along for a long time as orbiters. If you're not getting anything out of it, it's not worth it. How do you know he's going to "pop the question"?
 
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