"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How can I get this girl ?

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She's 20 with a medical student biyfriend. He will pop the question soon this week. She said that shw will marry him because he's oerfect husband material, but she wants seckeual relationship with me. You can tell. He's an AFC to the core

I've screwd a little by making fun of him ( he uses injuctions to gain more muscles) he's jealous all the timedont want her to go out anywhere but she really wants to marry her.

I want this girl. Also i want to improve my game bywinning in this case.


I know you. Guys have bern there and won. Any advices ? Cuz she's already wants secks with me, how can I win her over ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She's 20, she doesn't know who she wants to marry, just a fantasy pipe dream for her at this point, but again, she's 20, and the importance for her in a relationship is undoubtedly going to change.

Fvck her if it's easily doable. If you do a good enough job, she'll keep coming back for more, and build the emotional attachment to you that you desire. If he's an AFC, she's bored, and will grow further bored with him as time passes.

Just go for it, blow her mind in bed, and she'll want more.
 
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Wrong mindset. You're not looking to win her over, she's looking to win you over. Other than that she's taken, if she wants sex with you then you can play on it. If she brings up wanting to have sex with you then tell her you won't do it because she's taken, no further explanation needed.

Just the basic idea of trying to win someone over is doomed to fail, always play as an equal or more. If you feel below your feelings betray you.
 
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"Winning" at fvcking another mans woman is like running in the special Olympics... Even if you "win", you're still retarded. Have some pride and honor.
 
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Grewd said:
Wrong mindset. You're not looking to win her over, she's looking to win you over. Other than that she's taken, if she wants sex with you then you can play on it. If she brings up wanting to have sex with you then tell her you won't do it because she's taken, no further explanation needed.
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Cosigned.

Quit wasting your time like a chump. The woman will be apparently engaged within the week....go meet hot single women.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Unless she is in your bed with you she is all talk. Women can string dudes along for a long time as orbiters. If you're not getting anything out of it, it's not worth it. How do you know he's going to "pop the question"?
 
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