"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She's 20 with a medical student biyfriend. He will pop the question soon this week. She said that shw will marry him because he's oerfect husband material, but she wants seckeual relationship with me. You can tell. He's an AFC to the core

I've screwd a little by making fun of him ( he uses injuctions to gain more muscles) he's jealous all the timedont want her to go out anywhere but she really wants to marry her.

I want this girl. Also i want to improve my game bywinning in this case.


I know you. Guys have bern there and won. Any advices ? Cuz she's already wants secks with me, how can I win her over ?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She's 20, she doesn't know who she wants to marry, just a fantasy pipe dream for her at this point, but again, she's 20, and the importance for her in a relationship is undoubtedly going to change.

Fvck her if it's easily doable. If you do a good enough job, she'll keep coming back for more, and build the emotional attachment to you that you desire. If he's an AFC, she's bored, and will grow further bored with him as time passes.

Just go for it, blow her mind in bed, and she'll want more.
 
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Wrong mindset. You're not looking to win her over, she's looking to win you over. Other than that she's taken, if she wants sex with you then you can play on it. If she brings up wanting to have sex with you then tell her you won't do it because she's taken, no further explanation needed.

Just the basic idea of trying to win someone over is doomed to fail, always play as an equal or more. If you feel below your feelings betray you.
 
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"Winning" at fvcking another mans woman is like running in the special Olympics... Even if you "win", you're still retarded. Have some pride and honor.
 
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Grewd said:
Wrong mindset. You're not looking to win her over, she's looking to win you over. Other than that she's taken, if she wants sex with you then you can play on it. If she brings up wanting to have sex with you then tell her you won't do it because she's taken, no further explanation needed.
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Quit wasting your time like a chump. The woman will be apparently engaged within the week....go meet hot single women.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Unless she is in your bed with you she is all talk. Women can string dudes along for a long time as orbiters. If you're not getting anything out of it, it's not worth it. How do you know he's going to "pop the question"?
 
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