"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How can I get my GF to go on the Pill?

foomee

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How can I persuade her to go on the pill? We've been having sex, but I've had to pull out every time; both her and I hate using condoms. It's stupid because she might get pregnant and I do not want to take the risk. I'm thinking of either refusing to have sex or just sticking with condoms :/. What are some ideas of getting her on the pill?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Alphamale1821

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tell her either you get on the pill or we stop having sex because pulling out is too risky and we both hate condoms
 

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HMMM

you gotta stop the pull ot thing right away. Trust me, you dont want an unplanned pregnancy.

I dont mind condoms myself. You could try some extra thin ones.

The pill fvcks girls up big time. I could never let my gf or partner take them.

BBLOOww jobs :rockon:
 

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The Patch? The Ring?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DonJuan11

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foomee said:
How can I persuade her to go on the pill? We've been having sex, but I've had to pull out every time; both her and I hate using condoms. It's stupid because she might get pregnant and I do not want to take the risk. I'm thinking of either refusing to have sex or just sticking with condoms :/. What are some ideas of getting her on the pill?


Slip it in her coffee.

What do you mean "ideas?" Either she takes it or she doesn't if you talk to her.
 
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If you don't want to get her pregnant then don't have sex!!!
 

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I have a couple suggestions. I was with a girl that hated condoms also, but she wouldn't take the pill.

I ended up switching from latex to lambskin. It's more expensive, but definately worth it. It keeps the little guys from reaching the egg, but does absolutely nothing against STD's getting to ya peter. So be sure you absolutely trust the person you're using them with. I'm guessing that you already do since you're "pulling out" *smh*.

If that still doesn't work for you there is a spermicidal cream that she can use before you guys have sex. I've personally never used it, but I see it in the condom isles everytime I go shopping.

Then we have the diaphram. Little thingy that gets stuck in her poon that keeps the little guys from reaching the egg. I've seen these things before, but I'm not sure if it's something that she can insert herself, or the docs have to insert it.

If you're just set on the pill, then you can tell her that it will clear up her acne, make her period less heavy and possibly less frequent.

(I sound like one of those commercials huh? Tell you all the benefits of doing something, then say "Taking this drug may cause, diarhea, bloating, upset stomach, and possibly DEATH")

Good luck
 

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I never trust a woman with the responsibility of taking a pill, but i can trust myself to wear a condom every time.
Agreed. Women usually don't "feel" like taking the pill, so they don't. You'll end up shoving the damn things down her throat before you can rely on her to take the responsibility.

You're much better off using a condom. You'll actually know that you're wearing it, whereas she could fvcking lie about taking the pill every day. Trust me, I've had quite a few women try to trick me into getting them pregnant either by saying they're on the pill, or pulling the "you don't trust me not to have STDs" guilt trip. YOU are the only one you can trust when it comes to birth control.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Nexus Polaris

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I don't trust anything that hasn't had a hysterectomy. Condoms should be mandatory. I know they suck and they're not always reliable, but anything else is even worse.

Pulling out while my girlfriend was on the pill was how I got my daughter. Never trust a woman to take a pill everyday. She will lie. It doesn't matter how honest she is as a person, SHE WILL LIE!

You really shouldn't be just pulling out without the pill as it is. Not saying it doesn't work for some people, but it's russian roulette.
 

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Get her pregnant, teach her a lesson
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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