"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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how can i get friends to have my back?

kevin1198

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Things have not been going well lately.
Sh!t has been going down and somehow im involved in it. im not going into detail. but i was wondering how you can get friends to have your back.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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kevin1198

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Dude, idk what happened. but heres whats going down apparently.
well i supposedly fvcked this girl that has a drug dealer boyfriend.
and i've been hearing this from multiple people.
Even my mom, cause somehow everyone is connected to this.
Her mom tells my mom (she didnt know it was my mom they were at a party)
that a guy by the name of kevin has been selling her weed, and she went on to describe me and the place i live in. (ALL 100 PERCENT CORRECT) except for the selling weed part because i've never done that.

now i smoke, and i have a few good buddies that do to, and they've been warned about a narc, and somehow this narc is connected with the whole situation here.
This freaks me out. and recently i've discovered that she blabbed her mouth to the drug dealer boyfriend. and he's after me, and my buddies for some reason.
so i quit weed in hopes that ill be in the clear.

but EVERYONE KNOWS WHATS GOING ON BUT ME.
either someone has used my name or people are just out to get me because I'VE NEVER known an ashley they described, and i've only had sex with a few girls, that i can all remember.

I just dont know whats going on and im worried.
 

Bronco5150

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That's a ****ty situation man, but if the guys are your friends they'll have your back no matter what. Kind of a cliche but its true, I hang out with a lot of different people, but there are about 5 guys who I know have/will back me up in a fight or a tough spot.
 

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Wow thats harsh man i say get you hair coloured
you cant negotiate with terrorists
and what is he exacly going to do yo you?

as long as its not knfiing or shotting your fine just talk to him
say your sorry you didnt know she was his gf and then call him out on being a man and give him a chance to 1v1 you in a fist fite cos you need to get your ass beat a little so he wont get his gang to gank you

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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