"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Things have not been going well lately.
Sh!t has been going down and somehow im involved in it. im not going into detail. but i was wondering how you can get friends to have your back.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dude, idk what happened. but heres whats going down apparently.
well i supposedly fvcked this girl that has a drug dealer boyfriend.
and i've been hearing this from multiple people.
Even my mom, cause somehow everyone is connected to this.
Her mom tells my mom (she didnt know it was my mom they were at a party)
that a guy by the name of kevin has been selling her weed, and she went on to describe me and the place i live in. (ALL 100 PERCENT CORRECT) except for the selling weed part because i've never done that.

now i smoke, and i have a few good buddies that do to, and they've been warned about a narc, and somehow this narc is connected with the whole situation here.
This freaks me out. and recently i've discovered that she blabbed her mouth to the drug dealer boyfriend. and he's after me, and my buddies for some reason.
so i quit weed in hopes that ill be in the clear.

but EVERYONE KNOWS WHATS GOING ON BUT ME.
either someone has used my name or people are just out to get me because I'VE NEVER known an ashley they described, and i've only had sex with a few girls, that i can all remember.

I just dont know whats going on and im worried.
 
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That's a ****ty situation man, but if the guys are your friends they'll have your back no matter what. Kind of a cliche but its true, I hang out with a lot of different people, but there are about 5 guys who I know have/will back me up in a fight or a tough spot.
 
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Wow thats harsh man i say get you hair coloured
you cant negotiate with terrorists
and what is he exacly going to do yo you?

as long as its not knfiing or shotting your fine just talk to him
say your sorry you didnt know she was his gf and then call him out on being a man and give him a chance to 1v1 you in a fist fite cos you need to get your ass beat a little so he wont get his gang to gank you

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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