"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How can I friendzone a girl, respectfully?

narcissist

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I know this girl who is friends with me and a bunch of people I know.

Unfortunately, she has grown quite the affinity for me and my DJ-esque ways.

She's literally and HB1, so I am not interested and never will be. So, how do I let her know that she's staying a friend, but respectfully, because I know a lot of people she does and don't want it to impinge on my social life.

Thanks bros! :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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TheGambino

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Tell her about the girls you dating and ask her advice on how to proceed. Also talk a lot about her exes and guys she dates and give her advice. Tell her you like a girl a lot and want to become exclusive with her ask her what she thinks about that. Tell her your insecure about the situation and be open about your relationship and life.

She will get the hint that youre not interested in her and see her as a normal friend and youll get in the friendzone bigtime. If youre planning on dating a girl or f8cking her you should never ever ask her advice or give her relationship advice that will get you to the friendzone straight up. But you want that so try it, it will work lol believe me. Just treat her as your sister works perfectly
 

salinechow

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Just tell her. Plainly. Exactly how you feel. "You are great girl for someone but I date only 8s and above." "My loss I know, but you need to hit the gym" Worked for me twice. Both girls text me gym updates. I know it sounds sh!tty but you are actually doing them a favor, and... you get eactly what you want. A friend.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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