"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How can I friendzone a girl, respectfully?

narcissist

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I know this girl who is friends with me and a bunch of people I know.

Unfortunately, she has grown quite the affinity for me and my DJ-esque ways.

She's literally and HB1, so I am not interested and never will be. So, how do I let her know that she's staying a friend, but respectfully, because I know a lot of people she does and don't want it to impinge on my social life.

Thanks bros! :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TheGambino

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Tell her about the girls you dating and ask her advice on how to proceed. Also talk a lot about her exes and guys she dates and give her advice. Tell her you like a girl a lot and want to become exclusive with her ask her what she thinks about that. Tell her your insecure about the situation and be open about your relationship and life.

She will get the hint that youre not interested in her and see her as a normal friend and youll get in the friendzone bigtime. If youre planning on dating a girl or f8cking her you should never ever ask her advice or give her relationship advice that will get you to the friendzone straight up. But you want that so try it, it will work lol believe me. Just treat her as your sister works perfectly
 

salinechow

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Just tell her. Plainly. Exactly how you feel. "You are great girl for someone but I date only 8s and above." "My loss I know, but you need to hit the gym" Worked for me twice. Both girls text me gym updates. I know it sounds sh!tty but you are actually doing them a favor, and... you get eactly what you want. A friend.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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