Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
How can i find me a 18 year old chick?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
KnightRyder
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btw, why are you interested in 18 yr old chick may I ask ?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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yunghova35
Don Juan
Originally posted by pudding
Because there some are cute and pretty and there 18.
Seriouly dude, I think you may have a internal problem, you may be a boardling pedifile (sp?).
But why dont you try the MALL, or a High School
Sicko
yunghova35
Don Juan
I know but still targeting after a girl because of her age is a little sick...
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
If your thinking of gurls as young as 18, and your 30, I'd say you have an eye out for the even youngerones too.
the only reason 18 is such a big deal is because it leagal.
you need help. get it.
It might save you from getting shot in the head
BootsOfEscaping
Don Juan
Easy...... myspace.com
You forgot to add colour to your post
Anyways... Pudding... I dont think that you SHOULD be targeting 18 year olds if u are 30.... Maybe when u are 40, then going for a 28 year old might not be TOO bad, but i would suggest that you rather target women that are in their mid-late 20's. But if u REALLy want to go for 18 year olds, then i would imagine that u should act and try look like 1 yourself. And obviously charm and everything else that this site teaches u to have will help.
Laterz...
Agree completely!! You want an 18 year old because they look young?? Someone print this off and keep it cuz chances are the Attorney will be needing it to prove his case when it comes time for criminal charges!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
BootsOfEscaping
Don Juan
Come on guys, take it easy. I am 31 and have 18 year olds after me all the time. I look about 24 so lucky me. While I cannot have much of a conversation with an 18 year old they are still fun to hang out with. I love going dancing with my younger girl crowd. Then again, I fit the scene, if your some old bald dude that LOOKS old, leave the young ones alone, you'll just look creepy.
Remember this, Hugh Heffner(my hero of course) is what, 70 something?!?! His gf's are all 18-20. Isn't that every mans dream anyway? Personally, I prefer an intelligent, experienced girl 22-26 but I still have a blast with the young ones.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
you are a man, you know haw it works
just looking out for the guy
Chemistry
Master Don Juan
The demographic is basic... you've got 30 - 35 yr old businessmen, suited still, on the one hand, and then on the other, you've got 18 - 21 yr old girls who are out lookin for a sugar daddy basically...
Perfection...
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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