"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
How can i find me a 18 year old chick?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
KnightRyder
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btw, why are you interested in 18 yr old chick may I ask ?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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yunghova35
Don Juan
Originally posted by pudding
Because there some are cute and pretty and there 18.
Seriouly dude, I think you may have a internal problem, you may be a boardling pedifile (sp?).
But why dont you try the MALL, or a High School
Sicko
yunghova35
Don Juan
I know but still targeting after a girl because of her age is a little sick...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
If your thinking of gurls as young as 18, and your 30, I'd say you have an eye out for the even youngerones too.
the only reason 18 is such a big deal is because it leagal.
you need help. get it.
It might save you from getting shot in the head
BootsOfEscaping
Don Juan
Easy...... myspace.com
You forgot to add colour to your post
Anyways... Pudding... I dont think that you SHOULD be targeting 18 year olds if u are 30.... Maybe when u are 40, then going for a 28 year old might not be TOO bad, but i would suggest that you rather target women that are in their mid-late 20's. But if u REALLy want to go for 18 year olds, then i would imagine that u should act and try look like 1 yourself. And obviously charm and everything else that this site teaches u to have will help.
Laterz...
Agree completely!! You want an 18 year old because they look young?? Someone print this off and keep it cuz chances are the Attorney will be needing it to prove his case when it comes time for criminal charges!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
BootsOfEscaping
Don Juan
Come on guys, take it easy. I am 31 and have 18 year olds after me all the time. I look about 24 so lucky me. While I cannot have much of a conversation with an 18 year old they are still fun to hang out with. I love going dancing with my younger girl crowd. Then again, I fit the scene, if your some old bald dude that LOOKS old, leave the young ones alone, you'll just look creepy.
Remember this, Hugh Heffner(my hero of course) is what, 70 something?!?! His gf's are all 18-20. Isn't that every mans dream anyway? Personally, I prefer an intelligent, experienced girl 22-26 but I still have a blast with the young ones.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
you are a man, you know haw it works
just looking out for the guy
Chemistry
Master Don Juan
The demographic is basic... you've got 30 - 35 yr old businessmen, suited still, on the one hand, and then on the other, you've got 18 - 21 yr old girls who are out lookin for a sugar daddy basically...
Perfection...
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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