"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi men ;)

I have a huge problem
scuz' for my bad english i'm italian

I know a girl who looooooove to be f**ked , very very very horny
She's 17, and I 'm 21 soon...problem : she's very experienced in spite of her age....and i'm VIRGIN! ( I know I know....) I am VERY ASHAMED

She tried to s*ck me but but in 10 Sec in her m0uth , I wanted to ejacul@t3 ....so I said : "no no it's not a good idea", and i stopped just before cuming :(
it was my first sex experience

Now, I want to f*ck her on monday...i CAN'T stay a virgin...all the elements of seduction are controlled, but i cùm too fast, I can't explode my reputation...so I have to control my cùm too.

I hesitate between several options:
- I'm honest and tell her that i'm virgin , but lie on the reason: I can tell her that it's because I was in love with a Muslim and I wanted to retain me for her..SO if I cùm too fast, I have my reason

-I fake that i'm experienced and try to satisfy her...but if I can't stay more than 10sec in her, there will be a problem..

I like her and know that there is a lot of girls on earth...but I don't want to miss this "test" , it will block me still more...big dilemma...she have a splendid body , I don't place her on a pedestal but it's the type of girl who let you if you cùm like a virgin

Please help me !!!!!!! how can I manage to be good and what can I say, HOW DO I HAVE TO DO?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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spitkicker

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Best thing to do is stop worrying about it. It's this type of thinking that will turn her off. All guys have problems with duration at one time or another...

The second thing, and very important is get off a few times that day.

So before you guys have sex, jerk off. It's really that simple...

Also, if you guys are both drinking, then you will last longer...
 

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i know that
but even before she s*cked me, i ej@culat3d 3 times
at 21 years old, it's a big problem to be virgin and even if we don't want that, we wait fo a fuc* ! so in my case it's impossible to retain me, after 10-15sec...

when she suc*ed me, i didn't take care about fast ***!ng cauz' I thought I was able to retain me, so it's not the fear which push me to cùm...i'm just LIKE THIS...i have waited too long
help me plz
 

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dont' worry about it man.
spitkicker is right - everyone has had a problem with duration at one point.
but a few pointers if you need them:
you say she's experienced, so she'll have no problems going on top - less work for you, and way easier to control your ejaculation.
concentrate on your breathing. sounds simple but if you concentrate on slow, deep breathing you'll relax more.
but when it comes down to it - it's not going to bust your rep, **** happens, big deal.
good luck buddy
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Think about a huge fat old lady!! Works for me.. But even if I come I just keep on rocking until she comes. You can handle a little pain for your reputation.

Or when you feel you are about to come, just slow down and use your hand on her.
 

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Originally posted by GiGi
all the elements of seduction are controlled, but i cùm too fast, I can't explode my reputation...
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

Yeah you don't wanna explode your rep :p

I loved that one!

There are many techniques you can learn to make you last longer. Do a search on the net. Also, in time, you will last longer. If you *** too fast, just keep doing sexual stuff to her until you are ready again, then go at it again. And again. etc.

Also, durex has a brand of condoms that are called Durex Performa. They have a "lotion" or somthing in the inside tip of the condom which deminishes sensation. It's very effective and you will definitely last longer. Try it.
 

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Ok ! but what do I have to say if she answer me..?
nobody has responded me for my options:

- I'm honest and tell her that i'm virgin , but lie on the reason: I can tell her that it's because I was in love with a Muslim and I wanted to retain me for her..SO if I cùm too fast, I have my reason

-I fake that i'm experienced and try to satisfy her...but if I can't stay more than 10sec in her, there will be a problem..
 

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Fake it, use a desensitized condom. Only give her the virgin story only if she asks or comments on something.. Only then
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by Lotheladus
But even if I come I just keep on rocking until she comes. You can handle a little pain for your reputation.
and just why would it be painful?
 

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first time i had sex, i didn't admit i was a virgin, and i SUCKED in bed. Not because a premature ejaculation (actually i didn't *** at all), but I just sucked. No matter how confident I was about everything.



TELL HER! She'll most probably be happy to lead you in for the first time, and will understand your PE problem.


Some of my friends use some special condoms to prevent this.
 

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haha would you rather ejaculate early and have sex or not have sex?
 
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