"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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~ how can I F*ck her?

GiGi

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Hi men ;)

I have a huge problem
scuz' for my bad english i'm italian

I know a girl who looooooove to be f**ked , very very very horny
She's 17, and I 'm 21 soon...problem : she's very experienced in spite of her age....and i'm VIRGIN! ( I know I know....) I am VERY ASHAMED

She tried to s*ck me but but in 10 Sec in her m0uth , I wanted to ejacul@t3 ....so I said : "no no it's not a good idea", and i stopped just before cuming :(
it was my first sex experience

Now, I want to f*ck her on monday...i CAN'T stay a virgin...all the elements of seduction are controlled, but i cùm too fast, I can't explode my reputation...so I have to control my cùm too.

I hesitate between several options:
- I'm honest and tell her that i'm virgin , but lie on the reason: I can tell her that it's because I was in love with a Muslim and I wanted to retain me for her..SO if I cùm too fast, I have my reason

-I fake that i'm experienced and try to satisfy her...but if I can't stay more than 10sec in her, there will be a problem..

I like her and know that there is a lot of girls on earth...but I don't want to miss this "test" , it will block me still more...big dilemma...she have a splendid body , I don't place her on a pedestal but it's the type of girl who let you if you cùm like a virgin

Please help me !!!!!!! how can I manage to be good and what can I say, HOW DO I HAVE TO DO?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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spitkicker

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Best thing to do is stop worrying about it. It's this type of thinking that will turn her off. All guys have problems with duration at one time or another...

The second thing, and very important is get off a few times that day.

So before you guys have sex, jerk off. It's really that simple...

Also, if you guys are both drinking, then you will last longer...
 

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i know that
but even before she s*cked me, i ej@culat3d 3 times
at 21 years old, it's a big problem to be virgin and even if we don't want that, we wait fo a fuc* ! so in my case it's impossible to retain me, after 10-15sec...

when she suc*ed me, i didn't take care about fast ***!ng cauz' I thought I was able to retain me, so it's not the fear which push me to cùm...i'm just LIKE THIS...i have waited too long
help me plz
 

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dont' worry about it man.
spitkicker is right - everyone has had a problem with duration at one point.
but a few pointers if you need them:
you say she's experienced, so she'll have no problems going on top - less work for you, and way easier to control your ejaculation.
concentrate on your breathing. sounds simple but if you concentrate on slow, deep breathing you'll relax more.
but when it comes down to it - it's not going to bust your rep, **** happens, big deal.
good luck buddy
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Think about a huge fat old lady!! Works for me.. But even if I come I just keep on rocking until she comes. You can handle a little pain for your reputation.

Or when you feel you are about to come, just slow down and use your hand on her.
 

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Originally posted by GiGi
all the elements of seduction are controlled, but i cùm too fast, I can't explode my reputation...
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

Yeah you don't wanna explode your rep :p

I loved that one!

There are many techniques you can learn to make you last longer. Do a search on the net. Also, in time, you will last longer. If you *** too fast, just keep doing sexual stuff to her until you are ready again, then go at it again. And again. etc.

Also, durex has a brand of condoms that are called Durex Performa. They have a "lotion" or somthing in the inside tip of the condom which deminishes sensation. It's very effective and you will definitely last longer. Try it.
 

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Ok ! but what do I have to say if she answer me..?
nobody has responded me for my options:

- I'm honest and tell her that i'm virgin , but lie on the reason: I can tell her that it's because I was in love with a Muslim and I wanted to retain me for her..SO if I cùm too fast, I have my reason

-I fake that i'm experienced and try to satisfy her...but if I can't stay more than 10sec in her, there will be a problem..
 

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Fake it, use a desensitized condom. Only give her the virgin story only if she asks or comments on something.. Only then
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by Lotheladus
But even if I come I just keep on rocking until she comes. You can handle a little pain for your reputation.
and just why would it be painful?
 

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first time i had sex, i didn't admit i was a virgin, and i SUCKED in bed. Not because a premature ejaculation (actually i didn't *** at all), but I just sucked. No matter how confident I was about everything.



TELL HER! She'll most probably be happy to lead you in for the first time, and will understand your PE problem.


Some of my friends use some special condoms to prevent this.
 

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haha would you rather ejaculate early and have sex or not have sex?
 
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