"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How can I convince my GF to give me head?

spax

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Shes young and told me she would but that she doesn't know how. I think she was just saying that because she didnt want, coz really, how hard is it?

How can I put it forward to her that she "does learn" and can give me it nxt time I see her.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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Try dressing it up like a lollypop..... but she may even try to bite it...

Be careful....

Seriously though... try to talk about this calmly with her... If she doesn't want to ..then don't push it.... give it some time...
 

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get her over, get her comfortable, dinner, movie, dont even talk about sex or head, just focus on getting her mood right, showing her a GOOD time.
apply kino through out the whole night, get her a lil horny, and tease her abit if u want but dont be to easy or sleezy.

then at the end of the night, when you believe the time is right, start kissing her passionately. do alot of foreplay aswell,, because when girls are horny, they usually give better head(hungry for c0ck) from my experience so invest alot of time during foreplay, and then, whip ur c0ck out and just let action lead, put ur hand behind her head and like guide her head slowly, if she says anything, tell her just it.

usually its the younger girls who are dumber which leads to better head :)

every girl doesnt want to give head man, u think they actually enjoy a big penis in their mouths and swallowing ***? or tasting salty pre ***? most of them do it for attention or so u like them.

if she doesnt give you head, give her heck, you expect that kind of sh1t
 

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pretty please with sugar on top? :flowers:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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girls give you head right up until they think they have you "hooked". Then you hardly get it at all. :nono:
 

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Of course I don't have too much to go on here, but this is what I would do. I'd leave her. If you leave her, she will come crawling and do it for you. Tell her that you want some oral. Tell her that it's gonna have to happen or you'll find another chick who will. It's her loss.

You shouldn't get hung up on girls. Especially ones that aren't willing to please.

It's all in your attitude. Don't give her the upper hand.
 

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The best time is when she is on the rag. Then she can't act like your being selfish/try to get you just to F her or something along those lines. You can always give her the "I'm a man and I have needs" or something along the lines of "it would be to her credit" blah blah. If she gives you the "I don't know how" then just tell her you'll help her along and give her gentle criticism, while telling her how much you enjoy it. There is a time you have to turn off the jerk, if she is going to suck you off make it a "Pleasant" experience for her. It's easier the next time you want one. As for inexperience, take it from me that friggin rocks. Sure it might not be the uber-BJ right off the bat, but you get to actually train them in the way "YOU" like it. :cool:

Yes you give up a tad of "Power" doing it this way, but leaving the avenue of BJ's open as one of the few ways she can climb a little in social status isn't a bad thing. "Oh you're feeling down and pathetic, here suck my cack and you'll feel all better" :)

If you find this informative hit the reputation scales, if you didn't like it just ignore this last line :)
 
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Get her drunk and stick it in her mouth.
 

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sexy_kuta said:
get her over, get her comfortable, dinner, movie, dont even talk about sex or head, just focus on getting her mood right, showing her a GOOD time.
apply kino through out the whole night, get her a lil horny, and tease her abit if u want but dont be to easy or sleezy.

then at the end of the night, when you believe the time is right, start kissing her passionately. do alot of foreplay aswell,, because when girls are horny, they usually give better head(hungry for c0ck) from my experience so invest alot of time during foreplay, and then, whip ur c0ck out and just let action lead, put ur hand behind her head and like guide her head slowly, if she says anything, tell her just it.

usually its the younger girls who are dumber which leads to better head :)

every girl doesnt want to give head man, u think they actually enjoy a big penis in their mouths and swallowing ***? or tasting salty pre ***? most of them do it for attention or so u like them.

if she doesnt give you head, give her heck, you expect that kind of sh1t
How do u know it's salty? Have u tasted it already lol
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Mavrick said:
Of course I don't have too much to go on here, but this is what I would do. I'd leave her. If you leave her, she will come crawling and do it for you. Tell her that you want some oral. Tell her that it's gonna have to happen or you'll find another chick who will. It's her loss.

You shouldn't get hung up on girls. Especially ones that aren't willing to please.

It's all in your attitude. Don't give her the upper hand.
^^O.P. if you are serious about your girl, don't take the above advice:down: :crazy:^^

If she doesn't want to give you head, then that's it....she's not ready or comfortable enough... She probably thinks that is what *****s only do, and she doesn't want to feel like a *****..

She's young like you said.... talk about it, and when she wants to she will give you a lick... If you are in love with her don't push this on her...
 

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I Love getting head, its great.

However, if I wanted some and didn't get any, I wouldn't get pissed at the girl or automatically assume she will never do it, or anything like that.

Why?

Well I think of it from her perspective by considering eating a girl out.

It's also something I enjoy, but in the right situation. I prefer them clean shaven, clean, have to like the girl, etc, and after all that, I still have to be in the mood. So even though its something I enjoy, there are plenty of times when a girl may have wanted it and didn't get it.

So don't give up or just assume she doesn't want to and never will.

Were you clean, somewhat trimmed, was she horny, was the atmosphere right (ie parents not about to walk in any second).

And honestly girls are self conscious about everything. If she doesn't know how to do it and thinks she'll be horrible at it, she obviously won't want to. What you need to do is convince her that its okay that she's new, and you'll teach her at her own pace. Think about it, would you want to finger a girl if you expected to be awful at it? Nah, you'd be worried she would think you suck.
 

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EricInTheHouse said:
^^O.P. if you are serious about your girl, don't take the above advice:down: :crazy:^^

If she doesn't want to give you head, then that's it....she's not ready or comfortable enough... She probably thinks that is what *****s only do, and she doesn't want to feel like a *****..

She's young like you said.... talk about it, and when she wants to she will give you a lick... If you are in love with her don't push this on her...
You can be weak like this guy if you'd like. It's up to you.
 

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Mavrick what's wrong with respecting a girl? I don't think it's weak at all. If she doesn't give you head once and you make a big deal and kick her to the curb what does that show? It shows that YOU'RE weak if anything. If you let something like this bother you this much you've got a problem. Have you ever been accused of date rape? Or have any of your GFs left you because they considered the relationship unhealthy? If she doesn't give you head one night just brush it off like it's nothing and get her to do it another time. So she wasn't comfortable doing it then, that doesn't mean she never will be.
 

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Most of the time I just force a girl to go down on me. Girls love to be dominated in bed and all is fair game UNTIL SHE SAYS NO. If she says no just bring her back up and start more comfort building tactics (childhood stories, insecurities etc.) and try again for the bj by applying LIGHT force. I find the key here is being able to transition from sensitive lover to domanieering caveman and not get stuck on one method. Be multidimensional and use variety. Read "Sex God Method" by Daniel Rose, it really clarifies it.

It's just like being in the field, sometimes you get rejected for number closes and in bed you can get rejected in bed. Don't take it personally, who knows why she's not interested. But unless you try you'll never know.
 

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danro said:
Mavrick what's wrong with respecting a girl? I don't think it's weak at all. If she doesn't give you head once and you make a big deal and kick her to the curb what does that show? It shows that YOU'RE weak if anything. If you let something like this bother you this much you've got a problem. Have you ever been accused of date rape? Or have any of your GFs left you because they considered the relationship unhealthy? If she doesn't give you head one night just brush it off like it's nothing and get her to do it another time. So she wasn't comfortable doing it then, that doesn't mean she never will be.
Um, it's not date rape if you leave her for not doing it. It would be if you made her do it, your leaving the choice up to her. Anyway, this girl won't do it just once, she won't do it all. It's not a weakness to walk away. It's a strength, and it will only turn her on.
 
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