That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
How do u know it's salty? Have u tasted it already lolsexy_kuta said:get her over, get her comfortable, dinner, movie, dont even talk about sex or head, just focus on getting her mood right, showing her a GOOD time.
apply kino through out the whole night, get her a lil horny, and tease her abit if u want but dont be to easy or sleezy.
then at the end of the night, when you believe the time is right, start kissing her passionately. do alot of foreplay aswell,, because when girls are horny, they usually give better head(hungry for c0ck) from my experience so invest alot of time during foreplay, and then, whip ur c0ck out and just let action lead, put ur hand behind her head and like guide her head slowly, if she says anything, tell her just it.
usually its the younger girls who are dumber which leads to better head
every girl doesnt want to give head man, u think they actually enjoy a big penis in their mouths and swallowing ***? or tasting salty pre ***? most of them do it for attention or so u like them.
if she doesnt give you head, give her heck, you expect that kind of sh1t
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
^^O.P. if you are serious about your girl, don't take the above adviceMavrick said:
:crazy:^^ You can be weak like this guy if you'd like. It's up to you.EricInTheHouse said:^^O.P. if you are serious about your girl, don't take the above advice
If she doesn't want to give you head, then that's it....she's not ready or comfortable enough... She probably thinks that is what *****s only do, and she doesn't want to feel like a *****..
She's young like you said.... talk about it, and when she wants to she will give you a lick... If you are in love with her don't push this on her...
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Um, it's not date rape if you leave her for not doing it. It would be if you made her do it, your leaving the choice up to her. Anyway, this girl won't do it just once, she won't do it all. It's not a weakness to walk away. It's a strength, and it will only turn her on.danro said: