how can I carry the consvesation forward? even if i know them..

[Sacrifice]

what else can i talk about?

SCROLL the page down!! you all wrong.. Its not a about dating or talk to a girl.. ! forget about this post.. scroll down and you will see new post!
its about Subjects and conversation problem and that stuff! just scroll down until you see the word "Jesssus!!!"



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ok its looks like no one understand me or dont know what i mean

Well its about Conversation.
but the problem is that.. when IM have use`t every topic and questions that i have, then the convesation will fall down and end
because i dont know what else i could/can talk about.. foreksempel in MSN or face to face talk, if i start the conversation
then i have to talk most of the time, because it was me who started the conversation.. im dont talking about dating
or talking to a woman.. this is about people i know very well and so on
i have manymany topics and question when im talking to new people but when i get to know about the person more and more
and she knows me more and more then the LOONG conversation will fall... and fall and fall osv..

this is what i use.. when i talk to people
how are you( who i know)
what did you do yeterday
what are you gonna do this day
what are you doing
what are you doing rest of the day/weekend

and when i have used all then the conversation will end cuz i dont know what else i should talk about..
soo can people write a list or send me alink for what i can talk about...

plzplz this i realy important for me, i want to talk with the person so long until the person have to go or something

 

[Boner da Stoner]

If they are quiet and you still want to seduce them...

In a bar: introduce them to new people, or vice verca, intorduce new people to them.

In a public place: Tease them into talking

In private: Tell them a story

 

[Sacrifice]

yeahyeah
but i want a long conversation and talk about something not only What/how question...

okey..
im meeted a girl on a chat site, and we have now talked about some copple of months 6-7 monthu about ourself and what we like to do and where we live.. and yeah she know alot about me and i know about of her..
so its here its stops! i dont know what other question/topics i should talk about
cuz its only how/what question.
and im feeling that im losing her as i said for some copple of min.. .
when i start to getting know about the person(s) then the conversation will sink and sink and sink for every day cuz everyday its only the same question..

im so stuck!

 

[Sacrifice]

ok its looks like no one understand me or dont know what i mean

Well its about Conversation.
but the problem is that.. when IM have use`t every topic and questions that i have, then the convesation will fall down and end
because i dont know what else i could/can talk about.. foreksempel in MSN or face to face talk, if i start the conversation
then i have to talk most of the time, because it was me who started the conversation.. im dont talking about dating
or talking to a woman.. this is about people i know very well and so on
i have manymany topics and question when im talking to new people but when i know about the person more and more
and she knows me more and more then the LOONG conversation will fall...

this is what i use.. when i talk to people
how are you.
what did you do yeterday
what are you gonna do this day
what are you doing
what are you doing rest of the day/weekend

and when i have used all then the conversation will end cuz i dont know what else i should talk about..
soo can people write a list or send me alink for what i can talk about...

plzplz this i realy important for me, i want to talk with the person so long until the person have to go or something

 

[Sacrifice]

c'mon someone have to know something....
THIS IS REALY IMPORTEN

 

[The Juan and only]

Read "Real world seduction" by swingcat. It has some good stuff on conversation...open loops and all that ****.


and also try to structure your posts in a slightly more readable way...if possible.

 

[Sacrifice]

no i didnt find that post, and i didnt find the user "swingcat"
so i think the post is deleted or something

BTW: so you all no! i have read every conversation threads.. so you guys now that..

 

[StringShredder]

Sounds like a case of the chicks not being interested. I mean if you have to keep prodding her to talk about even her favorite topic (herself) she must be very bored and no interested in sharing her life with you.

Women are chatterboxes. If they like you, they can't keep their mouth shut.

Are you listening to her? You have to use the material that she provides to generate new questions!

You don't just go thorugh your freeze-dried list of topic starting questions man. You only fall back on that when you truly exhaust the conversation. Don't switch to "what did you do yesterday" if you haven't explored the avenues springing from the current topic.

From time to time just take something she said, and throw it back at her, paraphrased. It shows that you are listening. Ask pertinent questions based on listening to her.

 

[The Juan and only]

oh sorry. Its a book not a thread. didn't mention that.

one tip though. if you absolutely run out of things to say in a conversation, then just stay silent and look at the women as though you expect her to say something - that shifts the pressure on to her and if she doesn't say anything...SHE has screwed up. It sets the correct frame in that you're the one who is judging her and controlling the situation. 99% of the time she will say something and if not then dont worry.

Also, if silences do occur then you need to be confortable with them...well timed silences can be a good thing. emotions are contageous..if you seem confortable then she will be too....and the situation won't seem akward. In fact, you can take the opportunity to look her up and down or stare into her eyes.

 

[Rada]

Hmmm...he can't really stare in her eyes, since she is on the other side of the.....comp
As an advice, I would say, when she tells u what she had done or what she fells like that day...pick something that u could go deeper into and ask her more about it. Out of all that information she has to say something that sounds a bit interesting...so as soon as u see that, just ask her more about it...u will see that ur conversation will go on and on. Or, if she doesn't say things...u can tell her....women are good at listening....just tell her something that she is able to talk about (I mean not cars or football or stuff like that....she is less likely to be able to talk about that)

 

[mrswabe]

dude i have a hard time comprehending your post.

on times like these you better talk about yourself. that would in turn make the girl comfortable talking about herself.

do some storytelling. make interesting stories.

tell some jokes or humurous stories. laughter will break the woman's barriers that she had set up.

 

[Sacrifice]

nonono you all WRONG! READ HERE!!!!

JEEEEEEEEEESUUUUUUUUS!!!!!!!!!!!!
READ THIS every word and every word maby you all understand then

im not trying to get the GIRL or someonel or try to date her! im ndont talk about that!

im talking about conversation problem, i have NO problem to meet new people or try to know that person, because that is easy.. i have lots of topics about them and what they are interessted in and what they do etc.. when its come to that.. I have NOOOO problem with that

The problem is when i know everyting about the person b4 or know everything about the person very well "her/he fave things, what he/her likes to do" and have grow`d up with that person.. then the conversation will be alitte harder! because then i dont know what else to talk about, cuz I cant use these question "what are you Intressted in, what do you like" etc cbecause i know that person

and when i have meeted/chatted with a girl or a guy and we have chatted for some months talked about ourself, what we was intressted etc etc and shared everything about me and she/he have shared everything about her/he self! and know about eachother

but i only use those question as i said b4(all the how and what question)and i think she are tired of these quest and im also getting tired.. but WHAT else can i talk about?

its with the same as my Friends, i use it when im chatting in MSN or talk face to FACE every f**King time when im talk with a friend i know about..

DO somebody know a List over subjects?!! what i can talk about? etc

I HOPE this help! to know what i mean!
and sry againe im not a good explainer

 

[Kaptain]

If you know somebody really well your conversation does need to be more gossipy. ie i did this, you did that, they did this, did you see that. Then you can use the magic phrase: "How does that make you feel?" (or words to that effect).

 

[victor22]

YOu can also ask them to tell ther fav things and ask them to prepare a dish for you or ask them about decorating your house.

girly sutff which makes them to talk more , and i think this way you can find some topics
i am not sure wether you like it or not

 

[Sacrifice]

plz read my last post.. thx..

well why shoiuld i say what is your fav thing.. i know already the person Fav things

just read my last post pls
the "jeeesssssus" post!! or the subject
nonono you all wrong!

 

[victor22]

Hi sacrifice

Well if you were talking to them and knew them well , then you would knew common intrests and you can talk abt them, and also you can also ask them to try your favthings like watching ur fav movie or watching your fav game on tv.

well if you want to talk some thing you can also talk politics whish is never ending i think. i mean like social issues and developement

and also as other Dj's do you can keep the intrest by learning handwriting analysis, or face reading and tell intresting thigs abt them and aslo plam reading.

well hope u like it

 

[Sacrifice]

yhea i could do that too, but i feel that its not enough.. but its wasn`t thaht i was looking for but thx anyway

do someone know some subject i can talk about? some list over subjects?
some links?

or can someone list up subjects that i can talk about.. ?

 

[The Juan and only]

what? if you know someone quite well then conversation should be easy. Whenever I meet up with my friends (who I've know for years)..there's is alwasy something to talk about.

I suggest you just ask what they've been up to lately..that kind of thing.

Also, I'm slightly confused. Why are you trying to seduce someone who you've known for ages? that's generally not an effective thing - in fact, this entire thread is confusing and I can't be bothered to re-read it...so, I hope that was helpful in some way....

 

[Sacrifice]

im not trying to seduce people..
im trying to find some new subjects to talk about.. than using
these question every day/time i speaking to a person

how are you( who i know)
what did you do yeterday
what are you gonna do this day
what are you doing
what are you doing rest of the day/weekend

when else can i ask the person about? or subjects? cuz i realy dont know what else i can say.. when i have used those question im stuck then the conversation will fall! and then END

 

[victor22]

you can talk about

Yoga
Meditation
Nlp
talk about different religion other than your and you can tell them intresting stories for months.
like hinduism,buddism.
greatest people in the world in all the fields.
talk about new technology stuff in computers- new things will always come up every day in technology

i hope u find this usefull