"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
How can I be more flirty and sweet talk?
- Thread starter Pureafc
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
bluemanson
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what i learnt in management is that when 2 people are talking and the one that does most of the talking will always think that the conversation went well and it does work
so just let her talk bout her day and use c&f on whatever she says
LuisGarcia10
Senior Don Juan
My job is in telesales and the one thing we're always told is to try and aim for a 70/30 rule, ie the client does 70% of the talking and you do the other 30%, basically you use your 30% to steer the conversation, ie by asking her questions etc and let her do the rest. Obviously I'm not suggesting you interview the girl, one would hope if she isn't completely self obsessed that she'll want to hear a bit about yourself as well, but as a rule aim for around 70/30, women love to talk about themselves.
Pureafc said:So what questions can I ask in order for her to talk about herself?
Dont talk in question form, talk in statement form. GOLDEN RULE.
For example instead of saying:
Whats your favourite film?
Say:
I love that film superman, louis and superman were so hot together.
This forces her to talk about her own feelings instead of just saying "i like toy story"
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
playerone
Senior Don Juan
So instead of starting repeated threads on how to do well in a conversation with women and not getting started with anything forever, get the inner game right, go field-test with advices on the forum & DJ Bible, then tell us how it went so we can help you better.