“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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How can I be more flirty and sweet talk?

Pureafc

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Any ideas? I have yet to get laid. I always run out of things to talk about.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

bluemanson

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well my opinion is that you make her talk about things, let her do most of the talking

what i learnt in management is that when 2 people are talking and the one that does most of the talking will always think that the conversation went well and it does work

so just let her talk bout her day and use c&f on whatever she says
 

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It's pretty simple, let her do the talking.

My job is in telesales and the one thing we're always told is to try and aim for a 70/30 rule, ie the client does 70% of the talking and you do the other 30%, basically you use your 30% to steer the conversation, ie by asking her questions etc and let her do the rest. Obviously I'm not suggesting you interview the girl, one would hope if she isn't completely self obsessed that she'll want to hear a bit about yourself as well, but as a rule aim for around 70/30, women love to talk about themselves.
 

Pureafc

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So what questions can I ask in order for her to talk about herself?
 

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Pureafc said:
So what questions can I ask in order for her to talk about herself?

Dont talk in question form, talk in statement form. GOLDEN RULE.

For example instead of saying:
Whats your favourite film?

Say:
I love that film superman, louis and superman were so hot together.

This forces her to talk about her own feelings instead of just saying "i like toy story"
 

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I suggest you get your inner game right first, make sure you can deal with rejections and whatever setbacks that occur in the process of communicating with women. Then, you can take the advice given on this forums as a pinch of salt as someone else said, and experiment at your own leisure. Even if you fail, it's nothing to you. You just gain more experience and you'll know what to do the next time the same situation occurs.

So instead of starting repeated threads on how to do well in a conversation with women and not getting started with anything forever, get the inner game right, go field-test with advices on the forum & DJ Bible, then tell us how it went so we can help you better.
 

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How can anyone ever run out of anything to talk about. Just pull some **** out of your ass who cares. This aint a presidential speech son.
 
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