"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How can i be interesting as a pre-med student?

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Hi guys, im 20 years old in third year of college. I am working towards medical school so a lot of my time consists of studying and keeping my grades up. Im starting to get into the red pill and DJ'ing but how can i be the interesting guy with cool hobbies to bring her on if so much of my time is spent studying. How am i supposed to "focus on my purpose" and still be interesting in other ways. My hobbies include the gym, reading (self-dev) and just normal stuff like finding new music.

Any advice?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Oh, God. Not the "I'm in med school" line.

Ask you doctor about not sounding like a pompous douche.

You can start by not working toward medical school. You want to spend 12 years in a Big Pharma funded classroom only to be $150,000 in debt and have to force-vaccinate school kids for another 20 years to get back to zero? Don't do it. It's a racket.

And "my hobbies include finding new music"? Jesus.
 

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Trust me get in médical school, always be in shape, build your musical hobby (instrument), read dj bible.

Médical school is heaven if you looking for 10HB with a strong work ethic. So important in a partner (professional who understand your crazy work life)

Médical student are also strongly "pushed" into dating each other.

Just consider to really "time frame-schedule" everything
 

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From dating nurses, I have known a lot of doctors. I've also seen some of the most epic life-destroying divorces from them. Marry a girl right as you graduate, build up your practice for twenty years, and then she's set for life when she leaves and takes half of everything.

Most doctors are not in it for the money. They genuinely care about people. They make good money, but they work all the time and never enjoy it. If you are doing it for the money, pick a specialty like plastic surgery. Then you'll never get called in the middle of the night to come save anyone's life.

The other thing about doctors is that they tend to be bookish, and honestly a little dorky. The problem is that everyone knows they have money, so they have a huge target on their backs for every scam artist out there. That's part of the benefit of joining a practice and having a business manager. It shields them from the general public, who is usually trying to rip them off.
 

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Work out. Buffed + future doctor = plenty of skirt. Grab a few teasing lines off here and play with them. Just remember about young girls that they want to have fun and they aren't to be taken seriously so don't.

Apart from that concentrate on medical school that's far more important than any girl. Geez once you intern u will be covered in nurses anyway. Nurses are great just trust me on this and leave it at least 10 years before you marry one. And by that I mean 10 year age gap minimum.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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winu96

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Work out. Buffed + future doctor = plenty of skirt. Grab a few teasing lines off here and play with them. Just remember about young girls that they want to have fun and they aren't to be taken seriously so don't.

Apart from that concentrate on medical school that's far more important than any girl. Geez once you intern u will be covered in nurses anyway. Nurses are great just trust me on this and leave it at least 10 years before you marry one. And by that I mean 10 year age gap minimum.
is the DJ bible suffecient for these "teasing lines" or do you reccomend something else to learn pickup?
 

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Hi guys, im 20 years old in third year of college. I am working towards medical school so a lot of my time consists of studying and keeping my grades up. Im starting to get into the red pill and DJ'ing but how can i be the interesting guy with cool hobbies to bring her on if so much of my time is spent studying. How am i supposed to "focus on my purpose" and still be interesting in other ways. My hobbies include the gym, reading (self-dev) and just normal stuff like finding new music.

Any advice?
become charismatic, which means learn to tell good stories, good jokes, etc. be an interesting person to talk to. become knowledgeable about things so you can talk about a wide variety of things, and explore absolutely everything you have an interest in. you never know, you might turn out to be a world champion yugioh player
 
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