“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How can I avoid paying for both of us?

Marcageani

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I am going on a second date with this girl and last time I ended up paying for her as well as her friend. Luckily it was only about $25! This time it will be only us two, how can I slickly go about having us split the bill???? Is there a sneaky way to do this or what???
 

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Sneaky huh?

Here, got this one from a movie: Right as you're about to pay the bill, pardon yourself to the bathroom and stay there a loooooooong time until she pays.

Either that or you can ask her "How about we split the bill this time?" If she gives some excuse WATCH OUT!!! She could be a freeloader man!!! You might very well be in need of a rebooty :D
 

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Originally posted by Marcageani
I am going on a second date with this girl and last time I ended up paying for her as well as her friend. Luckily it was only about $25! This time it will be only us two, how can I slickly go about having us split the bill???? Is there a sneaky way to do this or what???
Was there mention of a threesome? Otherwise you have inadvertantly planted the seed that you spend your money freely. Why did you pay for her friend anyway, it wasn't actually a date with another person there. It was just lunch or dinner or whatever.

Anyway, I wouldn't be sneaker because it will probably happen again. Too much trouble to deal with. I'd tell her that you'd want her to take you to one of her favorite spots and treat you what what she enjoys. That should let you know if she's a professional dater or not.
 

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Definetely a funny idea to run off to the bathroom lmao, but I wouldn't be shady, go for the "Maybe we can split the bill this time?"

Thats a good honest approach, if she doesn't pay or makes an excuse then well like the rest say "look out"...... May not be so sincere.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Be a man an pay the whole bill you cheap mother fuccker.

If you don't like her then don't date her.

Otherwise pay the bill. If you don't know this much your wasting your time on this forum.

Helter

I hate cheap people!
 

chlywly

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Originally posted by Helter Skelter
Be a man an pay the whole bill you cheap mother fuccker.

If you don't like her then don't date her.

Otherwise pay the bill. If you don't know this much your wasting your time on this forum.

Helter

I hate cheap people!
I would tend to agree, but if he's trying to see if she is sincere and willing to split things and be giving, its not such a bad idea.
If he would like her to pay then he should be honest and request so.
 

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Casually mention before the date, "Tell you what, I'll pick up the movies and you can thank me by snagging me/us some twizzlers."

or this one has worked before...

"I grab the pizza, you grab the ice cream?"

Or some variation thereof.

-CyranoDeBergerac
 

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Do you guys consider yourself DJ's

Yeah, you can pick up the twizzlers?

assuming you guys aspire to having a hot girl with a great personality why should she waste her time on you.

She can have any guy's she wants.
If making a good intial impression is asking her to foot the bill your in trouble.

Date fat chicks if you want that.

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