How can I avoid paying for both of us?

[Marcageani]

I am going on a second date with this girl and last time I ended up paying for her as well as her friend. Luckily it was only about $25! This time it will be only us two, how can I slickly go about having us split the bill???? Is there a sneaky way to do this or what???

 

[legolas]

Sneaky huh?

Here, got this one from a movie: Right as you're about to pay the bill, pardon yourself to the bathroom and stay there a loooooooong time until she pays.

Either that or you can ask her "How about we split the bill this time?" If she gives some excuse WATCH OUT!!! She could be a freeloader man!!! You might very well be in need of a rebooty

 

[iqqi]

hey! read this...
don't pay....

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by Marcageani
I am going on a second date with this girl and last time I ended up paying for her as well as her friend. Luckily it was only about $25! This time it will be only us two, how can I slickly go about having us split the bill???? Is there a sneaky way to do this or what???

Was there mention of a threesome? Otherwise you have inadvertantly planted the seed that you spend your money freely. Why did you pay for her friend anyway, it wasn't actually a date with another person there. It was just lunch or dinner or whatever.

Anyway, I wouldn't be sneaker because it will probably happen again. Too much trouble to deal with. I'd tell her that you'd want her to take you to one of her favorite spots and treat you what what she enjoys. That should let you know if she's a professional dater or not.

 

[chlywly]

Definetely a funny idea to run off to the bathroom lmao, but I wouldn't be shady, go for the "Maybe we can split the bill this time?"

Thats a good honest approach, if she doesn't pay or makes an excuse then well like the rest say "look out"...... May not be so sincere.

 

[Helter Skelter]

Be a man an pay the whole bill you cheap mother fuccker.

If you don't like her then don't date her.

Otherwise pay the bill. If you don't know this much your wasting your time on this forum.

Helter

I hate cheap people!

 

[chlywly]

Originally posted by Helter Skelter
Be a man an pay the whole bill you cheap mother fuccker.

If you don't like her then don't date her.

Otherwise pay the bill. If you don't know this much your wasting your time on this forum.

Helter

I hate cheap people!

I would tend to agree, but if he's trying to see if she is sincere and willing to split things and be giving, its not such a bad idea.
If he would like her to pay then he should be honest and request so.

 

[CyranoDeBergerac]

Casually mention before the date, "Tell you what, I'll pick up the movies and you can thank me by snagging me/us some twizzlers."

or this one has worked before...

"I grab the pizza, you grab the ice cream?"

Or some variation thereof.

-CyranoDeBergerac

 

[Helter Skelter]

Do you guys consider yourself DJ's

Yeah, you can pick up the twizzlers?

assuming you guys aspire to having a hot girl with a great personality why should she waste her time on you.

She can have any guy's she wants.
If making a good intial impression is asking her to foot the bill your in trouble.

Date fat chicks if you want that.

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