"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How can I attract her attention?

Satan

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Hi guys. I have a question for you. I'm a deck cadet and we are all male in our class. today, a girl came our class to visit one of our friend. She is so cute and beautiful. usually we don't care women too much but this one was hot piece and everyone interests her and looks her. and then i think she notices this situation. i m sure she feels like a princess now because of my seaman friends.
maybe she would come tomorrow or another day, What can i do for attract her attention in this situation?? there are lots of handsome marine around and they show their interest to her. I know I should give her less attraction. she didn't even notice me. She doesn't know me. I need some ideas. Thank you in advance.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You just have to man up and talk to her.

What kind of ideas were you looking for? Hallmark cards or bouquets of flowers?

The BIG problem is how important you're making this seem. She's just a girl. Just one girl....Stop building this up into something bigger than it is.

Just talk to her. About the weather. About her shoes. About life in the Navy...or whatever it is...
 

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sorry friend. i cant describe this well. no, i don't mean flowers or some kind of loser actions. main problem is selfconfidence of girl. i must act like i don't care her or ignore her. but how?? what can i do? if i simply go and talk to her. probably she doesn't care me because all of my friends doing that already. i need better idea
 
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