"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How can I attract her attention?

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Hi guys. I have a question for you. I'm a deck cadet and we are all male in our class. today, a girl came our class to visit one of our friend. She is so cute and beautiful. usually we don't care women too much but this one was hot piece and everyone interests her and looks her. and then i think she notices this situation. i m sure she feels like a princess now because of my seaman friends.
maybe she would come tomorrow or another day, What can i do for attract her attention in this situation?? there are lots of handsome marine around and they show their interest to her. I know I should give her less attraction. she didn't even notice me. She doesn't know me. I need some ideas. Thank you in advance.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You just have to man up and talk to her.

What kind of ideas were you looking for? Hallmark cards or bouquets of flowers?

The BIG problem is how important you're making this seem. She's just a girl. Just one girl....Stop building this up into something bigger than it is.

Just talk to her. About the weather. About her shoes. About life in the Navy...or whatever it is...
 
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sorry friend. i cant describe this well. no, i don't mean flowers or some kind of loser actions. main problem is selfconfidence of girl. i must act like i don't care her or ignore her. but how?? what can i do? if i simply go and talk to her. probably she doesn't care me because all of my friends doing that already. i need better idea
 
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