"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How can anybody believe in religion?

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Social_Leper said:
This is a fine post sir. A fine damn post.

When believers chastise atheists for their "arrogance" in non belief I don't even think they see the irony in what they're doing.

Let's be clear and accurate here.

Arrogance is declaring knowledge of something that cannot be known by man because he was not there and has absolutely no means to know it. He can only speculate.

The arrogance doesn't come from non-belief. Declaring non-belief is intellectually honest. It is an honestly held belief. A man's declaration that he somehow "knows" that which is unknowable is what is arrogant.

There is no irony. I personally would never chastise non-belief. If the person was willing, I would rationally discuss it with him, but I would respect his belief (even if I thought it was a mistaken belief). However, when someone shouts out "I know there is no God" similar to the way a child (or often, a woman) would declare their "facts", I take them to task and expose the fact that they are simply shooting from the hip because they are given to unbridled emotion about the subject. Children (especially teens) "know" everything, because "it must be so". An adult who acts in the same fashion is arrested in that dynamic.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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