"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How can anybody believe in religion?

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Social_Leper said:
This is a fine post sir. A fine damn post.

When believers chastise atheists for their "arrogance" in non belief I don't even think they see the irony in what they're doing.

Let's be clear and accurate here.

Arrogance is declaring knowledge of something that cannot be known by man because he was not there and has absolutely no means to know it. He can only speculate.

The arrogance doesn't come from non-belief. Declaring non-belief is intellectually honest. It is an honestly held belief. A man's declaration that he somehow "knows" that which is unknowable is what is arrogant.

There is no irony. I personally would never chastise non-belief. If the person was willing, I would rationally discuss it with him, but I would respect his belief (even if I thought it was a mistaken belief). However, when someone shouts out "I know there is no God" similar to the way a child (or often, a woman) would declare their "facts", I take them to task and expose the fact that they are simply shooting from the hip because they are given to unbridled emotion about the subject. Children (especially teens) "know" everything, because "it must be so". An adult who acts in the same fashion is arrested in that dynamic.

This thread has run its course. Everybody has had their say.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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