"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How can anybody believe in religion?

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Social_Leper said:
This is a fine post sir. A fine damn post.

When believers chastise atheists for their "arrogance" in non belief I don't even think they see the irony in what they're doing.

Let's be clear and accurate here.

Arrogance is declaring knowledge of something that cannot be known by man because he was not there and has absolutely no means to know it. He can only speculate.

The arrogance doesn't come from non-belief. Declaring non-belief is intellectually honest. It is an honestly held belief. A man's declaration that he somehow "knows" that which is unknowable is what is arrogant.

There is no irony. I personally would never chastise non-belief. If the person was willing, I would rationally discuss it with him, but I would respect his belief (even if I thought it was a mistaken belief). However, when someone shouts out "I know there is no God" similar to the way a child (or often, a woman) would declare their "facts", I take them to task and expose the fact that they are simply shooting from the hip because they are given to unbridled emotion about the subject. Children (especially teens) "know" everything, because "it must be so". An adult who acts in the same fashion is arrested in that dynamic.

This thread has run its course. Everybody has had their say.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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