"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How can American Idol have any credibility?

bud_2005

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The show is a joke, how people become successful after they win the contest is beyond me.

I don't understand how some of the worst singers ever even get past the trial judges and onto the show. If you are trying show the world how good of a singer someone is, don't let the trash into the same group as them. Simon Cowell is fake as hell to.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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how can those contestants familes send them there? why didnt they tell them not to do it??
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Because no matter what anyone says about the show, good or bad publicity is publicity. It's an easy way for anyone to get their 15 minutes.
 

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The bad singers make for good, funny entertainment. There are 3 sets of auditions for the show. The first one is in a huge stadium where they pick the best and the worst to send to the next round. Those people go back the next day and audition for the producers. A few more get picked out of those people and they send the best and the worst on to audition for Randy, Paula and Simon. The best get sent to Hollywood for the next round and the worst get shown because they are funny. That's about it...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Well the singers that won the competition continue to become rich and successful so you gotta give the judges some credit. Kelly Clarkson would have never became famous without the show.
 

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Originally posted by PeterNorthisawesome
Well the singers that won the competition continue to become rich and successful so you gotta give the judges some credit. Kelly Clarkson would have never became famous without the show.
thats what star search did for people in the eighties.. anyone remember leeanne rhimes?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Kelly clarkson already had her 15 minutes of fame, but shes big now. They play her song 100 times a day on the radio here.
 

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I personally like the show. 2 cents out
 

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When I think of comedy of think of Will Ferrell, Chris Farley, Jim Carrey, Ryan Reynolds, stuff like that.
 

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As a former musician, I detest American Idol. Bad music of any kind is not funny.

While I admit AI's final product is pretty good (Fantasia, Ruben, Clay, Kelly, Kimerbly Locke, etc.), they are also responsible for the William Hungs of the world.

The human voice is the most powerful and sacred of all musical instruments. And Americal Idol makes a complete farse of the art form.

At least Star Search had more respect for the art form and did not expliot its rejects for a cheap ratings boost. Plus, the winners were decided by qualified judges ONLY, and not by some fickle, biased, general public who have no idea of how much hard work goes into being a good singer and performer.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Talking about credibility. The grammies have lots of it.

Kelly Clarkson won against Mariah Carey. But we all know they're **** nowadays so...
 

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my thoughts on idol;

Kelly clarckson was the fist and only real idol , rest are just some copycat wannabes who wont get anywhere....

The show is stupid , but its entertaining ....

The idea of the majority population of usa are the ones choosing the winner is bulls****...

The tv show itself choses the finalists , they give portrays on them and learn about theyr background , while the ones who wont go on to be the finalist will prolly have theyr face on the tellie for like only 10 sec.....

They should have stopped after the first idol show , cuz now theyr only butchering the hole thing....
 
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