I know this really cool girl from the girls soccer team, and we talk and you know just chill, i like her but i dont know if she likes me, well a few weeks ago i went to a party, just blown out of my mind, i mean i couldnt even describe how i felt, i was so fu**kin stoned. Well i get there and she calls me over and we start talking and she notices i am blown and i am drinking and just totally wasted. I mean i know this girl doesnt do any of that stuff, so should i stop my habits in order to get her, i mean not stop (i wont do that for anyone) but just dont do it around her, or do you think she will be cool with it? help me out
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
kave
Don Juan
if yall get in a relationship shes goin to find out ne ways so if u think shes worth it( which she prolly isnt no girl is when ur young) then u should quit but if not then fuhk it.
Oh yah if u just wanna get in her pants just try to hide it till u get ur end of the deal.
Oh yah if u just wanna get in her pants just try to hide it till u get ur end of the deal.
undesputable
Master Don Juan
hey girls are attracted to bad boys...they love that....do drugs, be adventurous, go out with other girls, stop worrying, get tattoos piercings, all that bad boy stuff, but dont beat her up....
on the other hand most men wont ever do that so just keep drinking and smoking in MODERATION... dont be completly wasted around her, maybe you can get her to do some of that with you.... but dont turn her into a pothead
on the other hand most men wont ever do that so just keep drinking and smoking in MODERATION... dont be completly wasted around her, maybe you can get her to do some of that with you.... but dont turn her into a pothead
LOLhey girls are attracted to bad boys...they love that....do drugs, be adventurous, go out with other girls, stop worrying, get tattoos piercings, all that bad boy stuff, but dont beat her up....
Yes, also make sure the tatoo's and piercings cover your whole body! Look at any fashion magazine and you will see what im talking about. NEVER stop doing drugs or drinking either girls love what it does to men, especially in the long term. And to top being a bad boy off dont forget to join one of the local street gangs.....
assassin
Don Juan
Being a bit judgemental here,
A lot of chicks are turned off by drug use.
If shes on the soccer team then she's probably one of those chicks that don't like drug use. She's probably has goals in her life etc... This is what came to my mind when I read this.
It might be a totally different situation.
Keep reading the DJB. You'll be able to tell right away if she likes you by the way she acts around you. Observe the little things she says and does.
A lot of chicks are turned off by drug use.
If shes on the soccer team then she's probably one of those chicks that don't like drug use. She's probably has goals in her life etc... This is what came to my mind when I read this.
It might be a totally different situation.
Keep reading the DJB. You'll be able to tell right away if she likes you by the way she acts around you. Observe the little things she says and does.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
What you do reflects what kind of girl you're going to pull.
If you're hitting the weed like a fiend, you'll be pulling in the well-worn burnout broads.
If you're drinking like crazy, you'll get the aspiring alcoholics.
Opposites DON'T attract. Sorry, but survey says that you won't be grabbing the prom queen if you're hitting the bong.
If you're hitting the weed like a fiend, you'll be pulling in the well-worn burnout broads.
If you're drinking like crazy, you'll get the aspiring alcoholics.
Opposites DON'T attract. Sorry, but survey says that you won't be grabbing the prom queen if you're hitting the bong.
You're wrong.Originally posted by Luscious
What you do reflects what kind of girl you're going to pull.
If you're hitting the weed like a fiend, you'll be pulling in the well-worn burnout broads.
If you're drinking like crazy, you'll get the aspiring alcoholics.
Opposites DON'T attract. Sorry, but survey says that you won't be grabbing the prom queen if you're hitting the bong.
It's entirely possible to meet girls who aren't into drugs but don't care if you do them. The bad boy appeal is real, and it's possible to find girls who don't do a bunch of drugs but aren't bothered by it either. The girl I'm currently dating proves this point.
undesputable
Master Don Juan
excatlyOriginally posted by Da Game
You're wrong.
It's entirely possible to meet girls who aren't into drugs but don't care if you do them. The bad boy appeal is real, and it's possible to find girls who don't do a bunch of drugs but aren't bothered by it either. The girl I'm currently dating proves this point.
AFK Protector
Master Don Juan
Yea, this is the FVCKING BEST ADVICE EVER.Originally posted by undesputable
hey girls are attracted to bad boys...they love that...., do drugs, be adventurous, go out with other girls, stop worrying, get tattoos piercings, all that bad boy stuff, but dont beat her up....
Dude, who gives a living sh1t knuckle about the "bad boy appeal." Truth is, drugs and alcohol will always affect you negatively in the long run. You're having short term pleasure in exchange for long term pain.
This is for you to decide. Quitting is very hard, but you must do it. Not for the girl, but for yourself. No one likes a drug addict.
Look what I found! Someone who speaks the truth!Originally posted by AFK Protector
Yea, this is the FVCKING BEST ADVICE EVER.
Dude, who gives a living sh1t knuckle about the "bad boy appeal." Truth is, drugs and alcohol will always affect you negatively in the long run. You're having short term pleasure in exchange for long term pain.
This is for you to decide. Quitting is very hard, but you must do it. Not for the girl, but for yourself. No one likes a drug addict.
Drugs are expensive. Alcohol is expensive. Your health and sanity are priceless. I mean, take your pick guys. Do what you want - I'm not your parents.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
TyTe`EyEs
Master Don Juan
I drink and smoke like a champ. Never had a problem getting girls because of it. If yall want to get throwed and blowed, i say go for it. Personally I don't smoke before being in group situations. Pot seems to kill any chance at me being social.
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
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Drugs are cheap if you have good hooks.
$5 to get high vs $5 to watch a movie, both about the same amount of entertainment. I'll go with the bud.
To the point: Smoking cigs and dipping are bad as **** infront fo girls. Some girls who I've dipped in front of don't even look at me in the same lgiht anymore, adn they know I get blazed and drunk often.
So far though, girls who know I smoke and drink don't seem to care much. They know I do each maybe once or twice a month, know I'm in advanced classes and that I ahve goals, so its nto affecting me.
Havign fun is having fun. Here its the norm for people to smoke. Just don't come blazed infront of girls who don't. Its frowned up, adn you looked absolutely retarded[as well as screwing your chances of them every trying it]
And i think undes was being sarcastic. He means have the bad boy image...not be the thugged out kid who hits a bong before school every morning.
Drugs are cheap if you have good hooks.
$5 to get high vs $5 to watch a movie, both about the same amount of entertainment. I'll go with the bud.
To the point: Smoking cigs and dipping are bad as **** infront fo girls. Some girls who I've dipped in front of don't even look at me in the same lgiht anymore, adn they know I get blazed and drunk often.
So far though, girls who know I smoke and drink don't seem to care much. They know I do each maybe once or twice a month, know I'm in advanced classes and that I ahve goals, so its nto affecting me.
Havign fun is having fun. Here its the norm for people to smoke. Just don't come blazed infront of girls who don't. Its frowned up, adn you looked absolutely retarded[as well as screwing your chances of them every trying it]
And i think undes was being sarcastic. He means have the bad boy image...not be the thugged out kid who hits a bong before school every morning.
Use drugs in a responsible way and you will have lots of fun and your life will not be ruined. That's all there is to it. The ones who are saying that smoking and drinking automatically turn you into a failure are the ones who obviously have little experience using.
You take prescription drugs to feel better when you're sick, you can take recreational drugs to make you feel better on a Friday night. Both are dangerous if abused but fine if you know what you're dealing with.
You take prescription drugs to feel better when you're sick, you can take recreational drugs to make you feel better on a Friday night. Both are dangerous if abused but fine if you know what you're dealing with.
but dont turn into a dealer unless you think the risk v reward is high enough. In fact IMOHO its stupid but its a personal decision, do not get so sucked into it that it kills u or you spend ur life behind bars. You only get one life.
TyTe`EyEs
Master Don Juan
I may use drugs but fvck selling them. I've had a misdimeanor for possesion but distribution is a felony. Not something to play with!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.