"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How 'bout, Tango?

Poonani Maker

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As you know, this is highly sexualized dance, spawned from the brothels of Buenos Aires, Argentina long ago.

I've recently taken Tango dance lessons from 3 seperate instructors. My latest instructor is Very giving of her time and the class is dirt cheap compared to the others. It was quite a treat to learn Tango from her, and I learn A LOT on how to lead a woman, as Tango is heavily reliant on the Man leading the entire dance. The woman totally follows in this dance. It's a Very masculine dance. I highly recommend learning it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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speakeasy

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I was in Buenos Aires a few months ago and considered taking a tango lesson but didn't. Kinda regret it. My dance skills suck.
 

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r0cky said:
I've never been to a place where they played tango music. Seems like a skills i would never put to use.
Exactly. I think that's the reason I didn't bother to learn it. Where are you going to use it outside of Argentina and Uruguay? Not like they have tango clubs here in L.A. Though it might be a cool thing in your arsenal to have. Get a girl back in your apartment after a fun night, put on a tango song and show her some moves. She'd probably then think you're this exotic, fun, worldly guy to know something like that and be quite impressed. Hell, I guess I should've learned tango then, dammit...
 

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I think it's a pretty cool skill to have. It's also an instant interest boost for women. I might try taking lessons someday though I like working out more.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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