"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How 'bout, Tango?

Poonani Maker

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As you know, this is highly sexualized dance, spawned from the brothels of Buenos Aires, Argentina long ago.

I've recently taken Tango dance lessons from 3 seperate instructors. My latest instructor is Very giving of her time and the class is dirt cheap compared to the others. It was quite a treat to learn Tango from her, and I learn A LOT on how to lead a woman, as Tango is heavily reliant on the Man leading the entire dance. The woman totally follows in this dance. It's a Very masculine dance. I highly recommend learning it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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speakeasy

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I was in Buenos Aires a few months ago and considered taking a tango lesson but didn't. Kinda regret it. My dance skills suck.
 

speakeasy

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r0cky said:
I've never been to a place where they played tango music. Seems like a skills i would never put to use.
Exactly. I think that's the reason I didn't bother to learn it. Where are you going to use it outside of Argentina and Uruguay? Not like they have tango clubs here in L.A. Though it might be a cool thing in your arsenal to have. Get a girl back in your apartment after a fun night, put on a tango song and show her some moves. She'd probably then think you're this exotic, fun, worldly guy to know something like that and be quite impressed. Hell, I guess I should've learned tango then, dammit...
 

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I think it's a pretty cool skill to have. It's also an instant interest boost for women. I might try taking lessons someday though I like working out more.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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