"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How blunt is too blunt?

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Hey everyone i have a question for all you, but first a little background. There's this HB7 who I've been flirting around with here and there, nothing big. But yesterday we had this intense flirting session for about a half hour with heavy kino on both our parts and i basically know she's attracted to me. Unfortunately though, because of the public setting and all of my friends around and the fact that neither of us had our phones on us, i didn't get the number.

Now I see her in school in the hallways sometimes, we rarely talk though. But I figure after what went down on Sunday no matter how I ask her she will give her number.

Should i just go for it with my intentions obvious, or should i wait untill i have a little time to talk? (which is rarely ever)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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asdfghjkl said:
Hey everyone i have a question for all you, but first a little background. There's this HB7 who I've been flirting around with here and there, nothing big. But yesterday we had this intense flirting session for about a half hour with heavy kino on both our parts and i basically know she's attracted to me. Unfortunately though, because of the public setting and all of my friends around and the fact that neither of us had our phones on us, i didn't get the number.

Now I see her in school in the hallways sometimes, we rarely talk though. But I figure after what went down on Sunday no matter how I ask her she will give her number.

Should i just go for it with my intentions obvious, or should i wait untill i have a little time to talk? (which is rarely ever)
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Make eye contact with her in the hallways and smile. If she smiles back, stay cool and walk past her. Then turn around and say "Hey! Jenny [or whatever her name is], I don't have your number. Something's coming up this weekend and you should come." "What is it?" (You Smile) "I'll let you know over the phone?"
 
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Asking a girl for her number is blunt??? hahaha

I was expecting to read something like,

You: "Hi what's your name?"
Her: "Becky"
You: "Ok, Becky, let's fvck"
 
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You say the reason you couldn't get her number is because you didn't have your phone...that's lame man...that's just an AFC excuse...use a piece of paper and have her write the number down and quit making AFC excuses for pusssying out
out. But, yeah try to get the number next time.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The magic words are "Can I call you sometime?" you will either get a up or down yes or no. Ived used it many times and never been turned down, and it sounds natural. My cousin who is a natural turned me on to this.
 
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ryannath said:
You say the reason you couldn't get her number is because you didn't have your phone...that's lame man...that's just an AFC excuse...use a piece of paper and have her write the number down and quit making AFC excuses for pusssying out
out. But, yeah try to get the number next time.
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Well, we were at a swim meet for about 7 hours, i didn't have anything to write it down with...if i could have gotten it I definitely would have.

Whatever when i see her I'm just going to go up to her and ask for it because next week is winter break:up:
 
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