"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How blunt is too blunt?

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Hey everyone i have a question for all you, but first a little background. There's this HB7 who I've been flirting around with here and there, nothing big. But yesterday we had this intense flirting session for about a half hour with heavy kino on both our parts and i basically know she's attracted to me. Unfortunately though, because of the public setting and all of my friends around and the fact that neither of us had our phones on us, i didn't get the number.

Now I see her in school in the hallways sometimes, we rarely talk though. But I figure after what went down on Sunday no matter how I ask her she will give her number.

Should i just go for it with my intentions obvious, or should i wait untill i have a little time to talk? (which is rarely ever)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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asdfghjkl said:
Hey everyone i have a question for all you, but first a little background. There's this HB7 who I've been flirting around with here and there, nothing big. But yesterday we had this intense flirting session for about a half hour with heavy kino on both our parts and i basically know she's attracted to me. Unfortunately though, because of the public setting and all of my friends around and the fact that neither of us had our phones on us, i didn't get the number.

Now I see her in school in the hallways sometimes, we rarely talk though. But I figure after what went down on Sunday no matter how I ask her she will give her number.

Should i just go for it with my intentions obvious, or should i wait untill i have a little time to talk? (which is rarely ever)
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Make eye contact with her in the hallways and smile. If she smiles back, stay cool and walk past her. Then turn around and say "Hey! Jenny [or whatever her name is], I don't have your number. Something's coming up this weekend and you should come." "What is it?" (You Smile) "I'll let you know over the phone?"
 
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Asking a girl for her number is blunt??? hahaha

I was expecting to read something like,

You: "Hi what's your name?"
Her: "Becky"
You: "Ok, Becky, let's fvck"
 
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You say the reason you couldn't get her number is because you didn't have your phone...that's lame man...that's just an AFC excuse...use a piece of paper and have her write the number down and quit making AFC excuses for pusssying out
out. But, yeah try to get the number next time.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The magic words are "Can I call you sometime?" you will either get a up or down yes or no. Ived used it many times and never been turned down, and it sounds natural. My cousin who is a natural turned me on to this.
 
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ryannath said:
You say the reason you couldn't get her number is because you didn't have your phone...that's lame man...that's just an AFC excuse...use a piece of paper and have her write the number down and quit making AFC excuses for pusssying out
out. But, yeah try to get the number next time.
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Well, we were at a swim meet for about 7 hours, i didn't have anything to write it down with...if i could have gotten it I definitely would have.

Whatever when i see her I'm just going to go up to her and ask for it because next week is winter break:up:
 
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