So if she was just a normal girl I'd have some idea of what to do unfortunately she's a mom. She's a friend of my sis, and back in nov she contacted me because she thought I was hot. Anyway, she ended up meeting and dating some guy she saw as a replacement father for her kid (he already had a kid, while I'm not that enthusiastic about kids). I just went no contact after that. Well I was bored last week and sent her a text asking what's up. We exchange some fluff talk, and she mentions she's single. At the end of our convo I say we should meet up; she says for sure although she is busy right now working 2 jobs (I'm busy to for the next week or 2 anyway). Now I'm not looking for a relationship with her or being a replacement father figure (not ready for that yet), just sex and some fun. Any help from guys who've dealt with similar girls would be nice.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
How best to proceed with this girl (young single mother)
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
if you think the baby daddy went in thinking he was going to start a family and be there for the rest of his life i got some AIG default credit swaps to sell ya
that thinking is why america is broke, baby daddyless now
that thinking is why america is broke, baby daddyless now
Be blunt with her. Just tell her you want sex and nothing more. Obviously she has had no problem spreading her legs in the past for other guys. She is nothing more than a dirty tramp. You are scraping the bottom of the barrel. Please don't make this into anything more than what it is - bottom fishing.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
kingsam
Master Don Juan
what are you a charity.....for stupid women?
this woman seems like trouble (for anything more than a bit of sex)....
this woman seems like trouble (for anything more than a bit of sex)....
Harsh for a reason. Don't be stupid! Nothing but trouble will come of such a thing. Sex is not that important. It would be better to be a virgin than to get involved with such trouble.Scion said:
Some of the boys on here make too much of sex. Restraint is a virtue when it comes to many broads.
well honestly dude I don't see much difference between her and other girls other than she has a kid. The reason I created this thread is to see if other guys have hooked up with a young mom without a lot of drama. If you tried and lots of drama followed than I will take your advice more seriously, otherwise I'll still see what other guys have to say. I'm not gonna do anything soon so nothing really urgent.BigJimbo said:
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I've been following this site for the last six years and I created an account just to reply to you.
Don't do it.
It's all fun and games until a little boy calls you Dad by mistake, you knock her up (by accident of course), move in with her out of convenience, etc and you realise what a mistake you've made.
Plenty of other women to go around without being caught up in messes like single mothers.
Don't do it.
It's all fun and games until a little boy calls you Dad by mistake, you knock her up (by accident of course), move in with her out of convenience, etc and you realise what a mistake you've made.
Plenty of other women to go around without being caught up in messes like single mothers.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
lol, funny funny. I don't really know if she saw that last guy as a father figure for her kid, all I know is that he did a lot of stuff with her and her kid after seeing her for a short time. And I have no intention in doing that, don't even like kids. As for the accidental part, I see no reason to not always wear a condom, I don't believe girls when it comes to that ****.AMDG said:You just qualified as a replacement father, maybe even as a real one following another "accidental" pregnancy. Congratulations
Plinco
Master Don Juan
Do whatever you want; but here is what I have to say: Unless you like children, get other options; if you are going to have sex with her, bring your own condoms and wear them!; don't trust her (yes, she really is looking for a daddy); be clear about what you want; and if you don't have sex with her (or unless you really like children) within two weeks, befriend her and get to know her friends
Remember what her goal is in the situation.
Remember what her goal is in the situation.
She maybe looking for a surogate daddy - The thing about her working two jobs was almost like an hint that she wants saving from her hardship.
It is the power of Puss* at play here in this thread - We know that hooking up with this girl and having a relationship, will lead to you being the daddy of someone elses genetic seed.
I'd only advice men who know there way around women and have built up the hidden A-hole - to date single mums - why? because the latter will give you the power to walk away when the sex drys up. Most AFC will be further ensnared by the puss* to walk -
Next thing you know, she is asking you to move in - she drops one of her jobs to spend time with the kid - You go out to work and find a good % of your wage cut in half looking after someone elses genetic pool. Usually they trap 'nice guys' by getting pregnent or in the very least offer them sex and keep it good until they have the claws in you -
Why any man would knowingly walk into a thing with a single mum is behond me - I'd do it, but then I can walk away very easily - The fact of the matter is, I dont think any guy who is asking the question you posed is in a position to walk away from this girl after she spreads the legs, if anything I can predict your future with 89% certainty, and here it is:
Your so ingrained into getting Puss*, that no advice will be listened to on this forum or any other place - You want that puss* and it's on a plate.
This girl knowing your a nice guy, will entice you with that puss* and in 5 years time, you will be shacked up with her and working like a dog to look after some other mans genetic gene pool - if your lucky you may have a kid of your own in that mix (I say lucky but what I mean is, at least you will have some genetic investment for yourself).
All I am saying is, it takes a strong man to walk away from his emotional and pyhsical desires and drives - it takes a stronger man even more so to walk away from a women who offers him puss*, especcially if originally that guy would ignore glaring red flags to tap it.
This girl would be great if you'd met her in a bar, but she is connected to you - If you sleep with her and dont relationship her, I doubt you'll hear the end of it - and I suspect your not the type of guy to walk away once she has you hooked in.
The only time i'd ever advice anyone to date a women with kids, is if the guy has kids also from another partner.
I've had sex with many, many women and almost all want something more - Unless she is a bar, party girl, then you can walk away never see her again.
This girl is a friend of your sisters, not only will that add pressure, imagine the shi* flinging your sister will do also - Trust me on this, women stick together, she will be more concerned about her friend more then she will be for you, if you think you can just go in and pump and dump!
It is the power of Puss* at play here in this thread - We know that hooking up with this girl and having a relationship, will lead to you being the daddy of someone elses genetic seed.
I'd only advice men who know there way around women and have built up the hidden A-hole - to date single mums - why? because the latter will give you the power to walk away when the sex drys up. Most AFC will be further ensnared by the puss* to walk -
Next thing you know, she is asking you to move in - she drops one of her jobs to spend time with the kid - You go out to work and find a good % of your wage cut in half looking after someone elses genetic pool. Usually they trap 'nice guys' by getting pregnent or in the very least offer them sex and keep it good until they have the claws in you -
Why any man would knowingly walk into a thing with a single mum is behond me - I'd do it, but then I can walk away very easily - The fact of the matter is, I dont think any guy who is asking the question you posed is in a position to walk away from this girl after she spreads the legs, if anything I can predict your future with 89% certainty, and here it is:
Your so ingrained into getting Puss*, that no advice will be listened to on this forum or any other place - You want that puss* and it's on a plate.
This girl knowing your a nice guy, will entice you with that puss* and in 5 years time, you will be shacked up with her and working like a dog to look after some other mans genetic gene pool - if your lucky you may have a kid of your own in that mix (I say lucky but what I mean is, at least you will have some genetic investment for yourself).
All I am saying is, it takes a strong man to walk away from his emotional and pyhsical desires and drives - it takes a stronger man even more so to walk away from a women who offers him puss*, especcially if originally that guy would ignore glaring red flags to tap it.
This girl would be great if you'd met her in a bar, but she is connected to you - If you sleep with her and dont relationship her, I doubt you'll hear the end of it - and I suspect your not the type of guy to walk away once she has you hooked in.
The only time i'd ever advice anyone to date a women with kids, is if the guy has kids also from another partner.
I've had sex with many, many women and almost all want something more - Unless she is a bar, party girl, then you can walk away never see her again.
This girl is a friend of your sisters, not only will that add pressure, imagine the shi* flinging your sister will do also - Trust me on this, women stick together, she will be more concerned about her friend more then she will be for you, if you think you can just go in and pump and dump!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.