how badly did I screw up?

[humph]

Well, I was supposed to go to the movies today with this girl who I really like. She was feeling pretty ****ty, had a headache and such, and she was driving over to pick me up when she decided she was feeling too sick to see a movie (she has her license and I don't). She continued on to my house, told me she couldn't come, and then she came in and we sat around on my couch and talked for an hour or so. I got a little kino over the course of the time she was there: I hugged her, put my arm around her a few times, etc, but I've already done all that stuff with her so it was nothing special. Then she left. Should I have made a move? I can kid myself and say I didn't because she was sick, but I know that's not the real reason. The real reason is that I was an AFC today. It just felt like I shouldn't be trying to make a move on a sick girl, and that I should be trying to make her feel better.

On another note, is her wearing lipstick a good sign? I've never had any girl wear lipstick to see a movie with me, and she did today, so I thought it was pretty weird.

 

[Sean O]

I'm no expert, but it seems to me that she would've just flat-out canceled if she wasn't interested in you. The fact that you used kino and she didn't resist is also a sign that she's interested. You probably should've made a move.

Or, look at it like this: did you, at any point, hear a little voice in the back of your head say "make a move, damnit!", but choose to ignore it for some reason? If you did, you probably missed a chance to make a move.

 

[NYC Dude]

She spent an hour at your house on your couch and you didn't make a move? Why? You should have made a move, no doubt. And lipstick means nothing, it's something every girl has and puts on.

 

[theory of knowledge]

dont worry about it...she was sick, and natrually if you made a move, she would have associated sickness with your relationship, more kino would have been desirable, but wait till she gets better.

 

[shydude]

I think she faked about being sick and all! She did came to ur house!!!!!! WHY? So u could advance to the next level!!! U really should have made out.. OK here are the reasons why u should have gone further:

She came to ur house!!
She probably faked about being sick! And if she really was sick she would come to ur house!
She didnt resist u touching her!
She was ON THE DAM COUCH!! UR COUCH
U were thinking about that!!

AND MANY MORE!!!

Next time use the chance, and u wont regret it!! Girls like sex, even though they say they dont!

 

[Mr_rogers]

Although it's possible that she was just faking, I doubt it. It doesn't feel right...

Overall, it's probably best that you didn't make a move, because I doubt she'd be overly receptive to anything like that when she's feeling like crap. I know that when I've got a bad headache I'm not into much other than feeling better...

 

[jackie_legs]

Dude I think she likes you. dude you atleast gave her a hug so thats really good. remember learn from everyday.