"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How badly am I screwing myself in dating by living in the suburbs??

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I live in a very nice suburb about 45 minutes from Chicago

I'm mostly around upper class white families and divorced people with kids. I don't see much of what I want (attractive/classy women in their mid 20s) anywhere except from the gym, bars and shopping malls (bars, approaching is somewhat ok, approaching at the other 2 locations is very very difficult). The problem is, moving is extraordinarily difficult. I have a job, friends, family, etc... all within 20 minutes of me. I also sorta like the peace and quiet of the suburbs. I drive 12 minutes to work, I never worry about parking, etc... I do like to party in Chicago - I go there about once every week or every 2 weeks. I'm well aware that dating would be much easier if I lived in the city - you're around professional 20s women all day long.

What would you do in my situation?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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bigdave17 said:
I live in a very nice suburb about 45 minutes from Chicago

What would you do in my situation?
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I flew into Chicago O'Hare internation airport. Hoped a cab and terroritized navy pier and downtown. Ended back at the W hotel. Babes for daysssssssssssssssssss.

Being in open nature is ideal. Long term, I want a place in the country, preferably near mountains like BC. Sit in stillness. Trip on mushrooms, bonfire, DMT or aco, and comeback with new insights. Then, go on a rampage of ****ing bitches without rubbers.

A girl age 18 (top form SMV) asked to add me to fb. The cutest part was that, she had a pen, and paper all ready. Looked all bambi eyes.



WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!
 
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