I live in a very nice suburb about 45 minutes from Chicago
I'm mostly around upper class white families and divorced people with kids. I don't see much of what I want (attractive/classy women in their mid 20s) anywhere except from the gym, bars and shopping malls (bars, approaching is somewhat ok, approaching at the other 2 locations is very very difficult). The problem is, moving is extraordinarily difficult. I have a job, friends, family, etc... all within 20 minutes of me. I also sorta like the peace and quiet of the suburbs. I drive 12 minutes to work, I never worry about parking, etc... I do like to party in Chicago - I go there about once every week or every 2 weeks. I'm well aware that dating would be much easier if I lived in the city - you're around professional 20s women all day long.
What would you do in my situation?
I'm mostly around upper class white families and divorced people with kids. I don't see much of what I want (attractive/classy women in their mid 20s) anywhere except from the gym, bars and shopping malls (bars, approaching is somewhat ok, approaching at the other 2 locations is very very difficult). The problem is, moving is extraordinarily difficult. I have a job, friends, family, etc... all within 20 minutes of me. I also sorta like the peace and quiet of the suburbs. I drive 12 minutes to work, I never worry about parking, etc... I do like to party in Chicago - I go there about once every week or every 2 weeks. I'm well aware that dating would be much easier if I lived in the city - you're around professional 20s women all day long.
What would you do in my situation?
