NeedToImprove
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
How bad is it?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Meisterman
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I haven't seen anything you posted before but I'll just say this:
Dude confidence comes inward and radiates outward. If you believe you're a sack of sh*t then you will always be one. If you choose not to, you won't. See your insecurities and fears and challenges and obstacles to overcome that will make you STRONGER. They were put there for a reason. Stop resisting what IS and start using them as springboards to overcome your doubts and become the person you want to be and more.
If you believe better looks would fix your fears and insecurities they won't; they will just mask them until they manifest from another facet in your life that you complain about and make yourself out to be a victim.
Stop feeling sorry for yourself and tell that little voice inside that says you aren't good enough to FU*K OFF.
Dude confidence comes inward and radiates outward. If you believe you're a sack of sh*t then you will always be one. If you choose not to, you won't. See your insecurities and fears and challenges and obstacles to overcome that will make you STRONGER. They were put there for a reason. Stop resisting what IS and start using them as springboards to overcome your doubts and become the person you want to be and more.
If you believe better looks would fix your fears and insecurities they won't; they will just mask them until they manifest from another facet in your life that you complain about and make yourself out to be a victim.
Stop feeling sorry for yourself and tell that little voice inside that says you aren't good enough to FU*K OFF.