NeedToImprove
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How bad is it?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Meisterman
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I haven't seen anything you posted before but I'll just say this:
Dude confidence comes inward and radiates outward. If you believe you're a sack of sh*t then you will always be one. If you choose not to, you won't. See your insecurities and fears and challenges and obstacles to overcome that will make you STRONGER. They were put there for a reason. Stop resisting what IS and start using them as springboards to overcome your doubts and become the person you want to be and more.
If you believe better looks would fix your fears and insecurities they won't; they will just mask them until they manifest from another facet in your life that you complain about and make yourself out to be a victim.
Stop feeling sorry for yourself and tell that little voice inside that says you aren't good enough to FU*K OFF.
Dude confidence comes inward and radiates outward. If you believe you're a sack of sh*t then you will always be one. If you choose not to, you won't. See your insecurities and fears and challenges and obstacles to overcome that will make you STRONGER. They were put there for a reason. Stop resisting what IS and start using them as springboards to overcome your doubts and become the person you want to be and more.
If you believe better looks would fix your fears and insecurities they won't; they will just mask them until they manifest from another facet in your life that you complain about and make yourself out to be a victim.
Stop feeling sorry for yourself and tell that little voice inside that says you aren't good enough to FU*K OFF.