"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How bad did I **** up this date

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Ringleader41

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I reconnected with my former oneitis from high school. Bad idea btw lol. I asked her out to this date party and she seemed like she really wanted to go. We walk around for a bit, and it feels awkward for me to make a move on her for some reason lol. Well the party was at a club and she thought it was at the house, so she was like I didn't feel like dancing tonight, so I just walked her back to her dorm. She told me to invite her to more parties, but in my mind I was like hell no lol.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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PapiChulo

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Walk her back to the dorm and didn't invite yourself in?!
 
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