"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How bad did I **** up this date

Ringleader41

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I reconnected with my former oneitis from high school. Bad idea btw lol. I asked her out to this date party and she seemed like she really wanted to go. We walk around for a bit, and it feels awkward for me to make a move on her for some reason lol. Well the party was at a club and she thought it was at the house, so she was like I didn't feel like dancing tonight, so I just walked her back to her dorm. She told me to invite her to more parties, but in my mind I was like hell no lol.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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PapiChulo

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Walk her back to the dorm and didn't invite yourself in?!
 
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