This chick was really into me, she approached me first and totally tried to get my attention for a week or so. I wasn't sure if I liked her or not so I invited her over to my house(mistake). We just smoked some really good bud and she wanted my d**k but I was didn't make a move because I was nervous and being nervous would ruin the situation IMO and she even teased me about it. So after that I saw her again but I'm not really making any sexual advances. It's been like 2 days and I'm gonna see her again tomorrow but am I in the friend zone now? Cause I don't want to make a move tomorrow only to get rejected cause she thinks of me like a friend.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
How bad did I mess up?
- Thread starter RollinDo
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