"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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RollinDo

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This chick was really into me, she approached me first and totally tried to get my attention for a week or so. I wasn't sure if I liked her or not so I invited her over to my house(mistake). We just smoked some really good bud and she wanted my d**k but I was didn't make a move because I was nervous and being nervous would ruin the situation IMO and she even teased me about it. So after that I saw her again but I'm not really making any sexual advances. It's been like 2 days and I'm gonna see her again tomorrow but am I in the friend zone now? Cause I don't want to make a move tomorrow only to get rejected cause she thinks of me like a friend.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Analyzeit

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Make a move tomorrow, the only way of knowing your in friend zone is if you get rejected and just don't care if you get rejected.

don't ask the people on this forum questions why and stuff just make a god damn move tomorrow
 

eaglez1177

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Yea man this is all up to you. You can either make a move, and possibly get some hot ass from this chick (which could possibly lead to high sex if you guys decide to, and trust me that is fvcking AWESOME), or you can let your balls shrivel up and regret not doing anything, telling your friends how you couldve, shouldve, and wouldve, gotten with this chick.

Remember, REGRET IS MUCH WORSE THAN REJECTION
 
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