"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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RollinDo

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This chick was really into me, she approached me first and totally tried to get my attention for a week or so. I wasn't sure if I liked her or not so I invited her over to my house(mistake). We just smoked some really good bud and she wanted my d**k but I was didn't make a move because I was nervous and being nervous would ruin the situation IMO and she even teased me about it. So after that I saw her again but I'm not really making any sexual advances. It's been like 2 days and I'm gonna see her again tomorrow but am I in the friend zone now? Cause I don't want to make a move tomorrow only to get rejected cause she thinks of me like a friend.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Analyzeit

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Make a move tomorrow, the only way of knowing your in friend zone is if you get rejected and just don't care if you get rejected.

don't ask the people on this forum questions why and stuff just make a god damn move tomorrow
 

eaglez1177

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Yea man this is all up to you. You can either make a move, and possibly get some hot ass from this chick (which could possibly lead to high sex if you guys decide to, and trust me that is fvcking AWESOME), or you can let your balls shrivel up and regret not doing anything, telling your friends how you couldve, shouldve, and wouldve, gotten with this chick.

Remember, REGRET IS MUCH WORSE THAN REJECTION
 
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