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How bad can being an AFC REALLY GET

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so basically recently on the news- in the Uk, where i'm from- up north there is a guy who's just split up with his girlfriend who he finds out actually got with a police officer and married him.

His response:

http://edition.cnn.com/2010/CRIME/07/07/england.manhunt/index.html?iref=allsearch&fbid=i864cLyLevx


do you think this kind of thing is what could be the causes of all these mass shootings? well atleast something related to a women?

hit me with your opinions and ideas

Peace

Aaz

UPDATE: Not sure if they were married as BBC and CNN say different things. But anyway- the point is still the same.

and its a good piece of info- but the guy is a Bouncer.
 

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And yet this happens so often I'm not even surprised.
 
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I was thinking the exact same thing Aazman... that guy is mega AFC it seems


altho wasnt he a bouncer? i woulda thought that might have got him some azz...

Edit: yeah u mentioned the bouncer thing ¬_¬
 
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this guy had way more issue that just being a "afc"
guys its pointless to try and label everything alpha/beta or afc/DJ
 

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well anyway kids- they guy got tasered and arrested.

if i was the police- id taser the hell out of him for just being such a nusiance. haha

if this was in america- would they shoot him straight away?

in the Uk- they care more about the paper work than doing their job.
 
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Aazman said:
well anyway kids- they guy got tasered and arrested.
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Umm, no he didn't. He blew his brains out with a shotgun. Not sure where you get your "news" from.
 
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Neon Owl said:
Umm, no he didn't. He blew his brains out with a shotgun. Not sure where you get your "news" from.
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Actually, the family does seem to be debating on getting a second postmortem from an external source, as there were apparently 2 tasers fired.
 
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Yea I know there is talk of 2 tasers being fired. However, Aazman said that he was arrested when in reality he blew his brains out...that's what I was referring to.

I thought the postmortem concluded that there were no taser marks anyway?
 
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Neon Owl said:
Yea I know there is talk of 2 tasers being fired. However, Aazman said that he was arrested when in reality he blew his brains out...that's what I was referring to.

I thought the postmortem concluded that there were no taser marks anyway?
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I mentioned that the family was considering getting a second postmortem.. I mean if the 2 tasers were fired why are there no marks reported in the postmortem? And if these marks were omitted or missed are these results reliable?

EDIT: I'm sure the cause of death is probably the self-inflicted bullet wound, but what if the trigger was reflexively pulled when the guy got hit with the tasers? There is an independent police inquiry into this, but I don't know enough about these to know if they are reliable.
 

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kingsam said:
this guy had way more issue that just being a "afc"
guys its pointless to try and label everything alpha/beta or afc/DJ
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+1, not everyone falls into categories of DJ and AFC. Moat wasn't an Average Frustrated Chump, he was a psychotic enraged hard nut.
 
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