"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How bad can being an AFC REALLY GET

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Aazman

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so basically recently on the news- in the Uk, where i'm from- up north there is a guy who's just split up with his girlfriend who he finds out actually got with a police officer and married him.

His response:

http://edition.cnn.com/2010/CRIME/07/07/england.manhunt/index.html?iref=allsearch&fbid=i864cLyLevx


do you think this kind of thing is what could be the causes of all these mass shootings? well atleast something related to a women?

hit me with your opinions and ideas

Peace

Aaz

UPDATE: Not sure if they were married as BBC and CNN say different things. But anyway- the point is still the same.

and its a good piece of info- but the guy is a Bouncer.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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And yet this happens so often I'm not even surprised.
 

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I was thinking the exact same thing Aazman... that guy is mega AFC it seems


altho wasnt he a bouncer? i woulda thought that might have got him some azz...

Edit: yeah u mentioned the bouncer thing ¬_¬
 

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this guy had way more issue that just being a "afc"
guys its pointless to try and label everything alpha/beta or afc/DJ
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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well anyway kids- they guy got tasered and arrested.

if i was the police- id taser the hell out of him for just being such a nusiance. haha

if this was in america- would they shoot him straight away?

in the Uk- they care more about the paper work than doing their job.
 

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Aazman said:
well anyway kids- they guy got tasered and arrested.
Umm, no he didn't. He blew his brains out with a shotgun. Not sure where you get your "news" from.
 

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Neon Owl said:
Umm, no he didn't. He blew his brains out with a shotgun. Not sure where you get your "news" from.
Actually, the family does seem to be debating on getting a second postmortem from an external source, as there were apparently 2 tasers fired.
 

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Yea I know there is talk of 2 tasers being fired. However, Aazman said that he was arrested when in reality he blew his brains out...that's what I was referring to.

I thought the postmortem concluded that there were no taser marks anyway?
 

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Neon Owl said:
Yea I know there is talk of 2 tasers being fired. However, Aazman said that he was arrested when in reality he blew his brains out...that's what I was referring to.

I thought the postmortem concluded that there were no taser marks anyway?
I mentioned that the family was considering getting a second postmortem.. I mean if the 2 tasers were fired why are there no marks reported in the postmortem? And if these marks were omitted or missed are these results reliable?

EDIT: I'm sure the cause of death is probably the self-inflicted bullet wound, but what if the trigger was reflexively pulled when the guy got hit with the tasers? There is an independent police inquiry into this, but I don't know enough about these to know if they are reliable.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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kingsam said:
this guy had way more issue that just being a "afc"
guys its pointless to try and label everything alpha/beta or afc/DJ
+1, not everyone falls into categories of DJ and AFC. Moat wasn't an Average Frustrated Chump, he was a psychotic enraged hard nut.
 
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