"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How bad are facial moles in the dating/sex game?

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I have noticeable moles on my face so (including acne) never went to apprach girls.

being aborad I got drunk girls easy and they were pretty hot IMO.

So, really I dont know were I stand as I alwasy thought no girl would be interested due to moles.

I think they are real ugly.

Some girls dont mind?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If we had moderators checking up on this site more than once per month, maybe we wouldn't have trolls clogging the board, starting 10 topics per day.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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donnyjondeppjuando said:
I have noticeable moles on my face so (including acne) never went to apprach girls.

being aborad I got drunk girls easy and they were pretty hot IMO.

So, really I dont know were I stand as I alwasy thought no girl would be interested due to moles.

I think they are real ugly.

Some girls dont mind?
Hi Donny,

They probably don't mind, I have two moles myself one is on my right cheek bone the other is in the middle of the left side of my neck, I have never encountered any social problemsor discrimination because of them. From experience, this type of thing only becomes a problem if you make it a problem i.e. it affects your self esteem and confidence. So i would say forget about it and focus on having/giving/being "fun" (and in your case getting them drunk lol).

Also every person is self conscious about something, women are some of the most obsessive, needy and self conscious creatures on the planet, so im sure they feel "ugly" too.

One more thing, why not just for fun bring up your moles in conversation with a girl and discuss it with her and she what she says. It could be a way to get her to open up on what she thinks "attractiveness" is and also gets her to open up and to talk about her feelings.

In summary, i would suggest that you try to turn negatives aspects/attributes into positives aspects/attributes and also use "everything" there is to achieve your goals.

Best Wishes and Good Hunting,

Adrian
 
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daring wraith said:
Hi Donny,

They probably don't mind, I have two moles myself one is on my right cheek bone the other is in the middle of the left side of my neck, I have never encountered any social problemsor discrimination because of them. From experience, this type of thing only becomes a problem if you make it a problem i.e. it affects your self esteem and confidence. So i would say forget about it and focus on having/giving/being "fun" (and in your case getting them drunk lol).

Also every person is self conscious about something, women are some of the most obsessive, needy and self conscious creatures on the planet, so im sure they feel "ugly" too.

One more thing, why not just for fun bring up your moles in conversation with a girl and discuss it with her and she what she says. It could be a way to get her to open up on what she thinks "attractiveness" is and also gets her to open up and to talk about her feelings.

In summary, i would suggest that you try to turn negatives aspects/attributes into positives aspects/attributes and also use "everything" there is to achieve your goals.

Best Wishes and Good Hunting,

Adrian

Thanks for that. I remember the cute 17 year old polish girl I was with on holiday. SO cute and hot and she kept lookin gin mirror and saying ''im so ugly'' etc..Id be like your hot shes liek Im ugly...This prob worked to my advantage a hot chick with real low self esteem goes for ugly dudes as she thinks shes ugly lmao. I ned to find more off them.

I once said to a thai girl who really like me what she think off marks on my face she said what marks what you talk about lol...but I dunno translation wasnt so good i think?

Im not a troll Im a new member, new to dating, new to sex. I got loadsa things on my mind. So, I been making my max 3 threads per day.

It will soon dry up...In fact not much more left to ask no tbh
 

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donnyjondeppjuando said:
I have noticeable moles on my face so (including acne) never went to apprach girls.

being aborad I got drunk girls easy and they were pretty hot IMO.

So, really I dont know were I stand as I alwasy thought no girl would be interested due to moles.

I think they are real ugly.

Some girls dont mind?
To each their own.

Case dismissed.
 
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