"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How bad are facial moles in the dating/sex game?

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I have noticeable moles on my face so (including acne) never went to apprach girls.

being aborad I got drunk girls easy and they were pretty hot IMO.

So, really I dont know were I stand as I alwasy thought no girl would be interested due to moles.

I think they are real ugly.

Some girls dont mind?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If we had moderators checking up on this site more than once per month, maybe we wouldn't have trolls clogging the board, starting 10 topics per day.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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donnyjondeppjuando said:
I have noticeable moles on my face so (including acne) never went to apprach girls.

being aborad I got drunk girls easy and they were pretty hot IMO.

So, really I dont know were I stand as I alwasy thought no girl would be interested due to moles.

I think they are real ugly.

Some girls dont mind?
Hi Donny,

They probably don't mind, I have two moles myself one is on my right cheek bone the other is in the middle of the left side of my neck, I have never encountered any social problemsor discrimination because of them. From experience, this type of thing only becomes a problem if you make it a problem i.e. it affects your self esteem and confidence. So i would say forget about it and focus on having/giving/being "fun" (and in your case getting them drunk lol).

Also every person is self conscious about something, women are some of the most obsessive, needy and self conscious creatures on the planet, so im sure they feel "ugly" too.

One more thing, why not just for fun bring up your moles in conversation with a girl and discuss it with her and she what she says. It could be a way to get her to open up on what she thinks "attractiveness" is and also gets her to open up and to talk about her feelings.

In summary, i would suggest that you try to turn negatives aspects/attributes into positives aspects/attributes and also use "everything" there is to achieve your goals.

Best Wishes and Good Hunting,

Adrian
 
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daring wraith said:
Hi Donny,

They probably don't mind, I have two moles myself one is on my right cheek bone the other is in the middle of the left side of my neck, I have never encountered any social problemsor discrimination because of them. From experience, this type of thing only becomes a problem if you make it a problem i.e. it affects your self esteem and confidence. So i would say forget about it and focus on having/giving/being "fun" (and in your case getting them drunk lol).

Also every person is self conscious about something, women are some of the most obsessive, needy and self conscious creatures on the planet, so im sure they feel "ugly" too.

One more thing, why not just for fun bring up your moles in conversation with a girl and discuss it with her and she what she says. It could be a way to get her to open up on what she thinks "attractiveness" is and also gets her to open up and to talk about her feelings.

In summary, i would suggest that you try to turn negatives aspects/attributes into positives aspects/attributes and also use "everything" there is to achieve your goals.

Best Wishes and Good Hunting,

Adrian

Thanks for that. I remember the cute 17 year old polish girl I was with on holiday. SO cute and hot and she kept lookin gin mirror and saying ''im so ugly'' etc..Id be like your hot shes liek Im ugly...This prob worked to my advantage a hot chick with real low self esteem goes for ugly dudes as she thinks shes ugly lmao. I ned to find more off them.

I once said to a thai girl who really like me what she think off marks on my face she said what marks what you talk about lol...but I dunno translation wasnt so good i think?

Im not a troll Im a new member, new to dating, new to sex. I got loadsa things on my mind. So, I been making my max 3 threads per day.

It will soon dry up...In fact not much more left to ask no tbh
 

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donnyjondeppjuando said:
I have noticeable moles on my face so (including acne) never went to apprach girls.

being aborad I got drunk girls easy and they were pretty hot IMO.

So, really I dont know were I stand as I alwasy thought no girl would be interested due to moles.

I think they are real ugly.

Some girls dont mind?
To each their own.

Case dismissed.
 
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