"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How are you suppose to act when a girl gets under your skin?

jigga23

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How are you suppose to act when a girl gets under your skin. For example if you text her and she doesnt text you back that night but calls you the next day how should you act? That sh1t bugs me so much. i wanna call her out but that probably looks stupid. maybe ill just act non chalant about it next time i talk to her.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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you're being completely AFC dude...you should act like nothing happened because things like this shouldn't bother you.
 

SilverSliver

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Ignore her. Sometimes I'll answer the next day and sometimes not, but if I do answer, I am "Busy" doing something and don't have the time to talk. It's best if you actually do find something to do for your own self. If she wants to do someithing, it's the "I would have thats why I texted/called yesterday but now I have other plans" If you call it makes you look like a wuss and puts her on a pedestal
 

muzicfreak2k3

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How do you act?

You don't.
 

Rhoto

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SilverSliver said:
Ignore her.
muzicfreak2k3 said:
You don't.
You're acting like a puppy. If shes going to disrespect your time or attention then she is not worth investing it in. Break that leash.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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