"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How are you suppose to act when a girl gets under your skin?

jigga23

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How are you suppose to act when a girl gets under your skin. For example if you text her and she doesnt text you back that night but calls you the next day how should you act? That sh1t bugs me so much. i wanna call her out but that probably looks stupid. maybe ill just act non chalant about it next time i talk to her.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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you're being completely AFC dude...you should act like nothing happened because things like this shouldn't bother you.
 

SilverSliver

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Ignore her. Sometimes I'll answer the next day and sometimes not, but if I do answer, I am "Busy" doing something and don't have the time to talk. It's best if you actually do find something to do for your own self. If she wants to do someithing, it's the "I would have thats why I texted/called yesterday but now I have other plans" If you call it makes you look like a wuss and puts her on a pedestal
 

muzicfreak2k3

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How do you act?

You don't.
 

Rhoto

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SilverSliver said:
Ignore her.
muzicfreak2k3 said:
You don't.
You're acting like a puppy. If shes going to disrespect your time or attention then she is not worth investing it in. Break that leash.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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