"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How are you sounds corny?

bud_2005

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There's got to be something better to say when you approach a girl for the first time and say "Hi, How are you?".

Another question is it a no-no to just ask a girl out before you get to know her?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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bcdefxyz2000

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be creative, if your at the movie theatre say somnething like "what movie are you goign to see" or if your at a mall and the girls is carying lots of bags around say something like " looks like your having a good time raidign the stores" it starts a good convo, and it is comes off friendly.
 

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it sounds corny to you because you've never done something like it before. when you say it to a girl you've never met she's not going to be thinking about your actions as much as her own. the approach displays the main thing (confidence) she's going to consider.
 

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What about the bible? :rolleyes:

A simple "hi, what's your name?" will do.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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yeah no sh*t..quit overanalyzing...since when did saying a simple "hey how the f*ck are ya?!" become so complicated.
 

McKindley

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If it feels forced you can try to slightly alter it to make it fit your personality more. I don't tend to say "Hi. How are you?" I usually ask "how're things?" Not that its lots better, but it fits my personality a lot more. You could try to find something that fits more.
 
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