"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How are you guys going to spend steak and BJ day?

dustmuffin

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One of my plates told me she wanted to help me celebrate steak and BJ day. Thats march 14. It is supposed to be the male version of valentines day.

She is taking off the whole day as am I. She will suck my d ick all day and give me all of the orgasms i can handle. Then in the evening she will take me to a steak house and pay for dinner.

Any of you guys celebrating steak and BJ day?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I actually have one FWB who is a little bit red pill, at least for a chick. She said something about this a long time ago. I asked her if she would honor it and she said yes. Unfortunately I have a previous commitment on the 14th. Maybe next year. If I were a married man on March 14th I wouldn't even ask for a steak and BJ. I would just ask the wife to go away for one night and give me one night of peace away from her nagging and b|tching. Guess that's why I aint married cuz I get that every night now lol
 

MoreThanSmooth

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Forgot this was actually a thing!

Going out for lunch with a girl I've known for a year tomorrow as it happens. She's coming over from the US and wants to meet for a meal, so I'll be getting the steak part of the equation but she's disappearing the same day and I'm fairly sure she isn't interested anyway, so the latter part..not so much.
 

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Steak and BJ day for me and my GF is every Saturday night...I get a weekly steak and BJ day..though last Saturday it was free Mexican dinner and BJ...yes I think I will take that one instead.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'll spend it at home relaxing, may get a plate over, most likely not. Just another day.
 

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Never heard of this. I hate most holidays myself, although I like the sentiment behind this one :)
 
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