Bingo-Player
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haha i like this !
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
How are women able to go from high interest to low interest in such a short period
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haha i like this !
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
teebear
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Let's talk about the elephant in the room: physical attraction. I think it plays a MUCH bigger role in our interactions with women than we'd like to admit.
I'm beginning to think that it doesn't matter how good your game is; if a woman doesn't think that you're a stud from the get-go, you're done. Good game keeps you in contention in relation to guys of equal SMV but if you're a 7 to her and in competition with an 8, she's gonna choose the 8 every time unless he is a complete and utter doofus. I mean, he'd have to be a total disaster to lose to a less physically attractive man.
I don't mean to rain on anybody's parade but I think that a lot of the hand-wringing and introspection that goes on around here could be avoided if we were more honest about the role that looks play in attracting women. It is still BY FAR the most important thing in determining whether you get to mix it up with 6's and 7's or 8's and 9's.
I'm beginning to think that it doesn't matter how good your game is; if a woman doesn't think that you're a stud from the get-go, you're done. Good game keeps you in contention in relation to guys of equal SMV but if you're a 7 to her and in competition with an 8, she's gonna choose the 8 every time unless he is a complete and utter doofus. I mean, he'd have to be a total disaster to lose to a less physically attractive man.
I don't mean to rain on anybody's parade but I think that a lot of the hand-wringing and introspection that goes on around here could be avoided if we were more honest about the role that looks play in attracting women. It is still BY FAR the most important thing in determining whether you get to mix it up with 6's and 7's or 8's and 9's.
teebear
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I just don't think that a text proves high interest, especially if you've never had sex with the girl in question.
Anyway, most of us have had to shake stuff like this off a few times. I know that I certainly have. It goes with the territory.
Anyway, most of us have had to shake stuff like this off a few times. I know that I certainly have. It goes with the territory.
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Agree with Teebear, in the context of hot turning cold. OP, perhaps you looked like crap that night at the club; made her reconsider.
Have you ever met a hot girl, only to find her on a first or second date not so hot? What do you do in that situation, eject?
Have you ever met a hot girl, only to find her on a first or second date not so hot? What do you do in that situation, eject?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.